Hi. I'm not sure if this question should go under this topic or not. But anyways, I'm 13/f and never been kissed. (yeah, I know yall are laughing) I heard that usually on your first kiss that you end up kissing the guys nose/face/ect. anyone have any tips so that won't happen to me? Cause that would be really embarresing. (sorry its such a dumb question)
Vikki27 answered Monday May 1 2006, 6:06 pm: I was 17 before I had my first kiss and I don't regret it for a second. Mostly because I truly cared about him then and I'm still with him nearly 3 years on.
I know this isn't what you want to hear but when you find a guy you really want to kiss, when it comes down to it, it doesn't matter whether you kiss his mouth or his eye or even his forehead because the only thing that will matter is that you're with a guy you care about and it's your first kiss.
It's not really that common for people to kiss any other parts of a person's face by accident anyway, to be honest and you need to be comfortable enough with the guy in question that it wouldn't matter if it did happen because you could just laugh it off. Don't worry too much about all of these little things because when it's over, you won't remember any of them. Just relax and do it. It really will come naturally. [ Vikki27's advice column | Ask Vikki27 A Question ]
CavieOwnsU2 answered Sunday April 23 2006, 5:03 pm: 13 is not a bad age, I wish I had waited that long. All I have to say is don't be embarassed if something weird happens. Most people's first kisses are lame. Maybe you can out your hand behind his head to better feel where his motuh should be.
My first kiss was in 5th grade and we were in my neighbor's basement with my other neighbor. The lights were off and my friend turned them on to see one of my neighbor's lips on mine. Not even sure how they got there. Very awkward. [ CavieOwnsU2's advice column | Ask CavieOwnsU2 A Question ]
oddlockset answered Saturday April 22 2006, 5:31 pm: Don't worry, it was about the same age for me. Just do some careful aiming and you'll be fine.
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INeedAdvice022 answered Friday April 21 2006, 11:25 pm: hey actually thirteen's not a bad age you shouldnt be ashamed of what you needhelp with everyones got problems..plus 13 i mean atleast your waiting for the right guy who will treat you right... umm maybe tile your head a little sideways and just go for it either way hell think its hott..just dont totally miss like chin lol but im sure you wont good luck!
blondestbrunetteeva answered Friday April 21 2006, 6:22 pm: Just stay calm, and keep ur eyes a little peeked at first so you can see were you are heading to lol. And it isn't a stupid question. And you should be proud not to have kissed yet. It is a good thing, not a bad thing. HONESTLY.
Best Wishes. [ blondestbrunetteeva's advice column | Ask blondestbrunetteeva A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Friday April 21 2006, 6:18 pm: Don't worry about a weird first kiss... mine was terrible! But it really meant something to me, and I still think of it as the sweetest kiss I ever had.
Just relax and let it happen, make sure your teeth don't get in the way, because that can really hurt. Don't be too wet and sloppy, and you're good to go! [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
thistimeofyear answered Friday April 21 2006, 5:34 pm: This is SO not a dumb question! You care enough to want it to be a pleasant experience, and that's a good attitude to have. :)
I have found that it's all in how you tilt your head. If the other person tilts to the left on their "approach", tilt yours right. it seems easier to be at different angles, so you don't bump noses. Also, keeping your eyes open until you connect is ok, unless you end up staring at each other from three inches away...that's never cute. :P
It's up to you from there, but think about how you want it to stop, too. I wouldn't jerk away, as if anything wrong has happened, but maybe leaning back and looking into their eyes is a good place to figure out where to go from there.
I hope that helps, and I'm sure it will be magical!
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