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is this weird?


Question Posted Wednesday November 9 2005, 9:46 pm

ok i have this friend and hes my ex but we are still good friends and for a week iv had the same dream when im snuggling up to him really close and we are kissing and some other think (holding hands...) but i dont know what this means! is it something thats wrong with me? should i ask him out again? if its any help i still have a cup he drank out of from my best (girl) friend's b-day party and her party was in June! please help im desparete im afraid ill do something stupid!
**sleepiesheep**


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MELiixMARiiE answered Saturday November 12 2005, 12:47 pm:
Yeah it sounds to me like you pretty much have feelings for him and want to get back together with him. You obviously miss him alot. I wouldn't exactly ask him out yet. First, find out how he feels about you ( ask his friends, your friends to find out, or maybe just ask him yourself ) and then just be like," Well do you wanna go out with me? If you say no then cause we just forget I said it and remain friends? Cause I wouldn't want the relationship we have now to be ruined by this." Cause hey, wouldn't you rather have SOME sort of a relationship.. then none at all? I hope I helped and I hope he says yes! =]






Love,
MELii

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ANP answered Saturday November 12 2005, 6:44 am:
well maybe you should try going out w/him again and see if yo two still have that sparke but whatever you do dont tell him about the cup or the dreams you might freak him out!! hope i helped u <3 allison

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happy-helper answered Thursday November 10 2005, 12:05 pm:
Dear Sheep,
I do that too, keep little things from boys that I like/d! Anyway, more importantly, why not talk to him privately and say that you think you made a mistake when you broke up and that you'd like to start again? Easier said than done but listen to yourself, you obviously like this guy...go for it, girl.
x Steph x

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Melanie4981 answered Thursday November 10 2005, 9:30 am:
Hi there!

You still really like this guy don't you!

Why is he your ex? Is there any chance of you getting back together?

If I were you and you do still like him sit down and talk to him about it - you never know he might be in just the same predicament as you - not knowing how to go about it!

The cup thing is a definite sign you still have feelings for him. If you like him tell him, if he doesn't want to go back out with you then you can still be mates but if he does then you'll have your BF back. I'd do it quickly too because you may not get the chance if he meets someone else he really likes!

TC and hope it all works out!


Mel xx

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Maranda answered Thursday November 10 2005, 2:56 am:
if you really care about him that much then i guess you should ask him out again? REMEMBER THIS...."if it didnt work out for you the first time, why would it the second time?"

just some words of advice hope i was of some help...xoxo goodluck

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angelfire2708 answered Thursday November 10 2005, 12:02 am:
DREAMS (ex-boyfriend/girlfriend)
It is very common for people to dream about ex-partners. Individuals that have been an important part of our lives continue to take up a part of our mind and heart. It is impossible to very dramatically shut the person out of thoughts and feelings.
You will continue to dream about your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend until you "let go" of them on a very important level, or until you learned your lessons from that relationship. Either way, dreaming about your ex-romance does not predict future involvement. It may be wish-fulfillment, reliving memories, or working out old issues. Dreams are very rarely prophetic!

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lulabelle answered Thursday November 10 2005, 12:02 am:
IAPOLOGIZE, THIS IS NOT THE QUESTION I THOUGHT I WAS ANSWERING. I MUST HAVE CLICKED ON THE WRONG QUESTION SOMEHOW. THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I HAVE DONE THIS.
I think you are worrying too much about it and you are not relaxing. Don't think about how you look or sound when you are telling a story. Be yourself. Don't worry about what others may think. Don't copy other people's style. This is why it may not be going over so well. Just keep on telling your stories and at some point your style will kick in. Everything takes practice. You are going to do just fine.

Namaste,

LULABELLE

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Kr4z3y_Ch3lly answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 10:31 pm:
um. yea. i deffinatly think you still like him. if he still likes you back then i think you should def. ask him out again! but if hes moved on let him be. also tell him how you feel. you never know he might like you too!

michelle<3

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icey0990 answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 10:01 pm:
dreams dont always mean something. ive had dreams and i would wake up like woah , how did this person get in my dream? other times i hhave dreams about crushes or whatever because i guess if that person is on your mind a lot, it makes sense you will dream about them. idk my theory anyway. I dont think a dream means you like him...dreams are fascinating, so strange arent they? but i think if you like this guy, you would know it..a dream wouldnt tell you you like him...maybe a dream could make you realize you like him..but it could have just been a dream and thats it.
if you like him..miss him..then yeah ask him out again sure.

good luck with it all!

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