rikatree2375 answered Friday July 29 2005, 12:30 am: Well, I understand your worries. Usually, your type of concern only affects how you think about yourself!!! If your scared of not having a relationship based on your height then you shouldn't have to worry. Usually guys want a fun-loving, nice, sweet girl. If the guy is even worth dating then he shoudldn't think twice about your height!!! Remember, being tall has it's perks too. Use it to your advantage!!! [ rikatree2375's advice column | Ask rikatree2375 A Question ]
xxjabsbabigrlxx answered Thursday July 28 2005, 6:08 pm: Being tall is not a turn off..Just get clothes that fit..try to grow your hair long so it makes it look like your a little shorter..everyone is beautiful in their own way..when you have confidence in your self other people will have confidence in you. [ xxjabsbabigrlxx's advice column | Ask xxjabsbabigrlxx A Question ]
xOxPr3PxOx answered Thursday July 28 2005, 1:40 pm: it dpends on the guy...some people dont mind but others just dont care about other people..describe the guy u like and maybe i can help more [ xOxPr3PxOx's advice column | Ask xOxPr3PxOx A Question ]
IveGotPinkJazzShoes answered Thursday July 28 2005, 1:07 pm: no i dont think it is but everyone has different tastes so some guys like short eople and some like tall. some guys just feel threatened by a girl if she is taller than him becuase they like to look like they can lookafter their girl but it doesnt look like it if they are taller. its just the way some guys think! just be thankful id kill to be taller! and another thing models are tall so its not a bad thing at all!
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azngemini answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 11:31 am: well, it depends on the guy. most prefer girls that are shorter than them, and not a lot of guys that are 13 or 14 are that tall. but tall guys that are your height or taller will probably find you attractive because you're tall, and it's hard to find a girl that tall at that age. so it just depends on the guy
Solaris answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 4:13 am: Well I am a tall man, so I personally prefer tall girls. I look weird with a short person haha. So i guess no one can really answer that for you. Everyone likes something different. Mine happens to be I like tall people.
SilentOne answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 12:55 am: Being a guy, this is one of the easiest questions to answer. Some guys don't like tall women. They're normally 3 feet tall, and smoke ;) Otherwise, no!!! It's not a turn off at all. You're actually lucky, because any guys who particularly like tall girls will be after you. Otherwise, I think it's an advantage in dancing, and other social activities to be as tall as your guy friends. Have you considered modelling? A century ago, women were meant to be short, it was "beautiful". Today, how many short women do you see in adverts? The trend has reversed, and you're in prime position to take advantage. If you're not into modelling, what about Basketball? O.k. maybe you don't think so... worth a suggestion.
Sappy advice : Love yourself.
Meganx3 answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 11:21 pm: Its possible, but the guys should like you for who you are. Some guys may be intimidated if their girl is taller than them. But its all in they opinion of they guy. If he doesn't like you just because you're tall, then I guess he's not really worth it because that would be really dumb if that was the reason
hailebop answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 7:38 pm: A turn off? No. If you are tall and slim then you undoubtedly have a figure that many men find very attractive. You may however find that some men, particularly at your age group when boys are typically quite insecure about their own bodies, find you intimidating because of your height, particularly if you are taller than they are. They may well fear that they would look foolish standing next to your or dancing with you, and this may make them reluctant to be as forward with you as they otherwise would be.
This is naturally difficult to deal with, and to a certain extent can only really be remedied with time and guys growing up and becoming more secure. For the time being you may have to deal with immaturity, but you must learn to ignore these people and focus on the positive, such as your lean figure and the type of clothes that your height allows you to carry off. Having confidence in your own skin and holding your head high will let your natural attractiveness shine through. There may be a few intimidated by your height, but if you are happy and confident in yourself there will be many who will see past this one small part of you. The best thing to do is to learn to love your body as it is. Don't assume or fear that guys won't be attracted to you because you are tall, as this can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Instead be confident, smile, and never ever slouch, as this will make you look closed and unapproachable. [ hailebop's advice column | Ask hailebop A Question ]
eudaimonia answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 6:14 pm: There's someone for everyone. And everyone has different tastes. Being self-conscious is okay and healthy, but don't take it to the extreme. Be yourself, know you've got the goods, and men will take notice. Sometimes it will take some time but don't let that bring you down, evetually you will get the attention you deserve. Personally, I perfer girls around my own height, I'm 5'11''. Since you're tall, you have to ask yourself the question, "Do I want a guy who's really short/tall?". If the answer is no, then understand the same mentality is being played out in the minds of men. It's not a personal attack, just a matter of personal taste, what feels more comfortable. But then again, height or weight has nothing to do with friendships or love, if you really like a particular person, it doesn't matter how they appear. Same advice goes to guys with girls. [ eudaimonia's advice column | Ask eudaimonia A Question ]
Brunette27 answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 5:59 pm: Wow that's really tall but that's probably not what u wanted to hear. If a guy doesn't like you just because you are tall, then he is not good enough for you because a guy should like you for your personality not your height. It isn't that big of a deal for a guy to date a taller girl, but it's like the same thing as girls sometimes not wanting to date a shorter guy. Some people care and some don't.
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Basketball3846 answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 5:54 pm: that is the same exact thing for me cept im a year older. i doubt its a turn off guys are just a little intimidated by it but they so get over it. like last year i was pretty much the tallest in the grade but this year everyone was about my size. so dont worry it doesnt last long at all. keep your head high and theyll all see you shining through! [ Basketball3846's advice column | Ask Basketball3846 A Question ]
MummuM answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 5:47 pm: I don't think being tall is a turn off for guys at all. If they judge you or don't like you just because you're tall, they're not the right guy for you anyways. This also depends on the guy. If he short, he probably doesn't want to have a girlfriend that is taller then him. But most guys at 6'' anyways, so you'd be perfect for him. Plus that, height shouldn't matter and if it does, find a new guy that will like you for you.
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