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Belly peirced
My mom won't let my peirce my belly, and i have wanted it for two years now. I have tryed to convince her that i want it done but she still says no! Any ideas? Please help asap!!!!!
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Dont bug your mom about it too much. That makes her even more mad and she will keep saying no. Show her that you are responsible and dont make a big deal out of it. Dont be in a hurry about it but save your money and when you get older she will let you! X0`
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Convince her that you are responsible enough to have a belly piercing. Start doing extra chores, improve your grades( if you need to), and just be more trustworthy. Maybe she'll notice your good behavior and realize that you're responsible to have a belly piercing
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have sum1 do it for ya...like a friend or sumthing...and then keep it covered around your parents for a few months until it is healed...then when you are ready and you think your mom can handle it...tell her and show her how cute it is...if she demands that you take the ring out just simply say no...tell her you didnt go through the pain for her to take control of your body and not let you have it...its your body girl...do with it what you please!
happy piercing!
~nichole~
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Give in. The darkside has you. Your power will be greater on the darkside than the light could ever have given you.
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i know exactly how you feel! well if i were you, i would have some backup for WHY you should get it pierced. maybe make a deal, like all As and Bs for one semester in exchange for getting it pierced. if that doesnt work, just talk to her about it. maybe she has a really good reason why she doesnt want you to get it pierced.
hope i helped
xoxo
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Throw a spear at her
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i had this same situation. when i was 13 the belly piercings got in style. My mom wouldnt let me get one i mean all ALL all my friends had their belly pierced i was always like uhh my mom doesnt let me.. so as the years whent on i stop showin interest in it. and when i really didnt care ne more then she let me do it. But you should talk to her let her know that you want it for you because its something you like and if she says no then you tell her u respect that and just drop the subject this isnt the best advice i could give you but hey if you CANT beat them JOIN them.
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She has legal rights over what you do until you are 18, if she doesn't want you to get it, she doesn't have to let you and as a child you shouldn't be telling her otherwise. Not to mention, you aren't piercing your BELLY unless you are planning on getting a surface piercing somewhere on your abdomen. It is a navel piercing, if you want it, know it.
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Dont keep bugging her that you want it done, because parents hate it when there children bug for this and that. Just show them that you are old enough to handle your belly button done and if you try getting the money to pay for it then it should be your choice.
luv roxie
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If your parents are adamant about you not getting it done.. then chances are there's nothing you can say.
Wait till your 18.. and do what you want when your on your own.. paying your own bills.. and doing what you want.. when you can afford it yourself.
Just a simple tip too.. it's called a "naval" piercing.
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Get a fake.
**xox**
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show her that you are responsable enough to have it done, do things around the house to build up trust then maybe later on ask her again. dont keep on asking cause that will just annoy her and make her say no over and over again.
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thats how my parents were at first too. I just had to show them that i was responsable. I got like really good grades on my report card, i cleaned around the house, i helped them with whatever they needed. basicly i sucked up to my parents ALOT. lol. but if they still wont let you .. you will just have to wait till your 18.
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hey my mom was the same way. shell eventually come around if she doesnt its not the end of the world. youll just have to wait till your 18. or you could always do it yourself. or keep naging and maybe shell see how much you really want it .
hope i helped
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hi there,
my mum was like that, like you are not going to have youre belly pierced, but they eventually come around, in the end, show her that you are responsible you know all the safety precautions, when i had mine done you had to put like antispectic on it so it heals in the proper way and not to take the healing jewellery until the cool off period and thenwhen its healed you can change it, if you decide to tell her before you do it convince her that you are well aware of the precautions and you are responsible enough to take care of it i also stress that you must be aware of all the precautions
good luck in whatever you decide
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