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im not sure...
ok well ive been going out with this guy for a while..(im 15 and hes 17). weve talked about sex and we both really want to do it. any advice on how to prepare or anything else? thank you!
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Birth control and protection. You don't want any STDS.
-Cara*Onell
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Hi Sweetie,
I don't want to sound like old people but how about visiting Planned ParentHood? (they claim its confidential... I wouldn't know... I SWEAR I WOULDN'T! Who are you to judge me anyway?! ...I'm just messing around. ...Not with guys... I mean, I was just making a JOKE. God, can't I say anything funny?) It's important you guys know how a condom is properly used and um... you can maybe even take STDs tests... its weird, I know, but I think it would be very helpful for both of you.
My best wishes! My you and your boyfriend have a long, happy relationship! ~Blessed Be...
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You've talked about sex, so you've discussed:
* birth control - what type, how to get it, who's gonna pay for it * abortion and adoption (birth control doesn't work all the time)
* STDs and prior sexual experience
* what having sex means to both of you
* fantasies of how you'd like your first time together to be
* reality of what you can actually do to make your first time together the best it can be
I'm not sure what other advice you need. But don't don't be embarrassed to ask more specific questions. :)
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just have protection that's for sure. i would hate for you to get pregnant at a young age. i still think your a little young. but just make sure your prepared. and take it nice and slow!
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You are too young to be doing that sort of thing. It's illegal you know.
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make sure you really trust this guy as long as you are both sure that you're ready then go for it..and be safe!
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JUST GO FOR IT GURRRLFRIEEEND!!! :o)
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Awh thats cute! Just make sure you're both ready, because that's what matters..and use protection! Good luck hun!
-Jennifer
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Okay First of all... if you have ONE isty bitsy doubt that he has HIV or could give you any STD's then go see a doctor... acutaly i would see ad octor anyways... also hve the DOCTOR tell you the results... so you absolutely KNOW. Then if he is all clean and you have any mroe doubts DONT GO TRHO WITH IT... you need to be absolutly sure that you want to do this so you have no reguests. If your goign to do it i suggest going on various types of birth control... most likely the pill AND a condom... ask your doctor if he has any more advice... hoped i helped.
-beccers_boo
keep me reading please
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Personally, I think that anytime is the right time. You feel it in your mind and in your gut (and obviouly in your genital area).
My advise to you is as follows: get losta losta condoms. Either at your school or at the doctors or at the drug store. And a good place to do it
Have fun...
~Laish
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there really is no way to prepare. ummm wear some cute underwear and oooh put some skintimate aftershave on your legs it makes them really soft and guys really like that. Umm have a condom and wear something easy to get in and out of. I would also shave down there, but thats just me i guess it just depends on what the guy your doing it with likes. Don't be nervous, i know it's hard the first time but yeah i hope i helped!
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well how long is a while? i was recently in a relationship and it is over now. well while we were going out on the second day we made out, i know not a big deal. the thing is is that he was my second kiss. i liked him so much and my friends were there. but every time i would stop kissing him it seemd like he didn't want to stop and he'd just keep going for it. well my parents were here when we did that stuff and 3 of my friends were too. well after a while about 6 days later he was over at my house and it was just my brother and i and him home my brother and i are pretty close so he didn't care what we did but the guy i was going out with wanted to take my virginity away and i didn't want him to. it just didn't feel right it was just to sacred to me and i don't want it taken away by some one who it's not right. so what i'm trying to get at is if you feel that it's right then go on! have your party but BE SAFE! USE A CONDOM!:-D >Rachel
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