Hi. My name is Cara-Onell Coolidge. Just Cara. I created this little column. Originally it was just going to be me, but I figured that more people listening to your problems are better than just one! The JAZZiFiED! crew will try to answer your questions as best as they can. Feel free to ask us any questions regarding your personal life: Love life, friendships, families, fashion, sex, hobbies, etc. There is bound to be someone in the JAZZiFiED! team that can relate to your dilemma!
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HEY! I'm Calypso..one word to describe me is GIRLY so of course i specialize in fashion, love, and health !!
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Member Since: November 28, 2004
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ok so theres this guy i like lets call him in "C" well the other night "C" asked me to pretend to be his gf for that night to piss this grl off that likes him n he doesnt like her the same way bcuz well shes sorta a nerd..and he said he'd break up wit me at the end of the night so i said yes but he never broke up wit me and that was like sunday night. so are we still goin out or what? bcuz hes always callin me his gf and stuff to his friends but i mean it was only for that 1 night so whats the deal? (link)
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First off i think that what C did was pretty ummm RUDE..I mean so what if she was a nerd he could have just told her up front that he doesnt like her. The truth hurts but it feels even worse to be lied too. ANYWAYS! I think that you should just ask him face to face what exactly you guys are. Like are you friends...boyfriend/girlfriend...etc! But like personally I dont think you guys are going out and if you guys arent , who would want to go out with a jerk like him!
-*Calypso ;]
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My brother is gay and a lot of people will always mention about it. They make fun of me because he's gay.. They keeps sayin Ohhh Your brothers GaY!!! and sometime's it doesn't bother me.. but other times it does. Surprisingly, most people are cool with it and say he's the coolest person they ever met.. what should i do!? (link)
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You should ignore people who use your gay brother to make fun of you. Maybe they're joking, who knows, but as far as I know I'd be mad if they continued to bring up my family's sexual preference. If it continues to bother you you should tell those people who continuously go "Ohh your brother's gay!" that it does, because if they think that you're cool with it then they will probably keep doing it.
-Cara*Onell
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i didnt no which one i shud put this under illness or relationships/school well anyways.... my friend rachel has 9 bros and sis's and her mom just found out that she had cancer! rachel is the oldest and is only 12! if i try to talk to her about it she just acts like she doesnt care that much and shes telling everyone! if it is possible i want to get her on extreme makeover home edition bc her family deserves it! and if her mother dies then there will b a widow father who has to raise 9 children on his own.
~*****please help*****~
!!!!!i rate high!!!!!!! (link)
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I know how difficult it must be for your friend to comprehend the circumstances, especially at her age. You need to let her know that this ISN'T something that should be be downplayed because it IS quite serious. Of course she'll put it off because she thinks that everything will always be all right. The truth is that nothing will be the same in her family again. I hate to say it, but it's true.
-Cara*Onell
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ok well ive been going out with this guy for a while..(im 15 and hes 17). weve talked about sex and we both really want to do it. any advice on how to prepare or anything else? thank you! (link)
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Birth control and protection. You don't want any STDS.
-Cara*Onell
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