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hi am 17 senior in h.s i was planning on going to college and everything. i was dating a guy who 25 and we broke up 3 weeks ago about one week ago i found out i was 5weeks pregant should i tell him?? how can i tell him??
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duh you should tell him if you dont want to take the responsibel i whould slap him hardest i could and tell my partents you are pregnet if he do take the responsible i guess u should get marriged
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you have 2 tell him think about the kid ur pregnant wth growing up wth out its father. just b like we need 2 talk n tell him ur pregnant...he may or may not understand but the best of luck 2 ya
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idk how but yeah you HAVE to tell him
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You should definity tell him!!! Call him and tell him to meet you somewhere...and then tell him the news if he reacts to it I dunno what to do bout that Sorry!
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.. Well i know it will be hard to tell him cause he might say its not his kid. caues thats what they all tend to say. but i think the best thing to do is tell him.. just tell him u need to sit down and have a nice long talk or something.
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Yes you have to tell him. I'm assuming your positive he is the father. He has the right to know. If i were you i would tell him as soon as possible. I would tell him in person too. You two need to find out what you are going to do about this situation. Because even though you broke up he is not out of the picture. Unless you let him get away. He is the father and he needs to be apart of the baby's life, as well as yours (not together just keeping contact with each other). You two need to figure out a plan as of what you both are going to do with the future of this child.
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tell him!!just blab it out or have one of ur friends tell...its always best!! hope i helped...
*-x-*Aimee*-x-*
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whoa! u totally have to tell him! just come to him with the truth and if he decides not to have anythin to do with it then hes an immature asshole who stuck his tampon in the wrong hole! okay lemme stop .. u needa confront him grl!
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yes of course u have 2 tell him...he is the father of ur child. i dont no how u r going 2 tell him that u r the father of ur child...but he had 2 no...im me nd tell me wht happens..
Good Luck hun x3
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definetly, he needs 2 know that way he can help u take care of the child. r u gona keep it or not ? * hope i helped some * u can ask me nething else u want *STEPHANIE*
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TELL HIM!!! If the baby's his (which it sounds like it is) then you should tell him. You don't want to dissappoint your baby's future.
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Hey~there is no easy way of telling him, the best way is to flat out tell him. Do you guys still talk? because if you do then that would be easier then if you guys don't talk at all.
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First of all, what do you want to do about the baby? You are awfully young to have a child, and I can't say it'll make you more likely to successfully attend and graduate from college. If you decide to have an abortion, I don't think it's strictly neccessary for you to tell your ex. Even if he wouldn't be happy about it, he could not stop you & it could cause a lot of mental stress for you.
If you decide to HAVE the baby, he needs to know. It is his child, and as soon as it's born he has legal rights regarding it. He'll get visitation and will have to pay support.
If you decide to have it and give it up for adoption, I would tell him as well. Who knows? Maybe he'll decide to take full responsibility for the baby.
One thing I would NOT do is expect this baby to bring you back together. It'll mess up college and even if your ex does come back, you're getting stuck with a guy who doesn't really care for you. You had reasons for breaking up with each other, and a baby will not fix them.
Good luck.
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Yes! You definitely need to tell him! He has a right to know and plus you'll need helping raising that baby! Just tell him yall gotta talk, there's no way around this conversation! I'm sorry it's had to come to this! Hope I helped! -Kayla
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yes you should deffinitaly tell him. Call him up and tell him you two need to talk face to face. When your together just come out with it its better to tell the straight truth instead of beating around the bush...good luck and if u need nemore help you can leave one in my inbox! =]
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He RAPED you! You need to seriously go to court about this. Sex with somone 8 years older? Do something! ~*Jenni*~
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Yeah, you're going to need to tell him. I don't know what type of guy he is if he'll be immature about it or if he'll be there for you. Just do one thing for me: DO NOT let him talk you into getting an abortion. It is completely wrong, you need to be strong, owe up to your actions and have this baby because once you do, once you see those first smiles it will all be worth it. If this guy has a good job but will not be there for you, hit him up for child support. If he will be there for you, great! If you are going to have to go through this without him, nothing is dealt to you that you cannot handle, you will have family and friends who will be there for you. Even though you are kinda young (but not too bad) think of this as a gift from him because a baby really is a precious gift. Just please don't let anyone talk you into aborting this child, YOU CAN DO THIS!! It won't be easy at times but it will be so beautiful, the whole experience. Oh, about college, you could always do online courses, there are many options out there for mothers. You have something more important to think about now...a new life. This new life is depending on you RIGHT NOW. So, congratulations and if you ever need to talk please email me at ICE11BLUE@aol.com
I am 23 with a 10 mo. old baby and I would love to be there to answer any ?'s you may have. I'm there for ya, babe! Good luck, and again, CONGRATULATIONS!!
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You should defintely tell him. Call him up if you still have his number or email him. This is pretty important, and don't you think he has the right to know? Just say, "Hey, I found out that I'm five weeks preganant. I thought you might want to know". I hope everything works out and good luck!
*Randy T*
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duh u need to tell him its his child!...just be like hey you got me pregnant
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Yes, you should tell him, because that baby is one day going to grow up and want to know who his father is. You also need to tell your parents BEFORE you tell him. I know that you don't want to tell your parents but you have to, because you can't do anything with that child, whether it be raise it, give it up, or abort it(which i don't sugguest) without your parents. Tell them, then tell him. He has the right to know. If he doens't own up to him there is nothing you can do about it just give that baby the best possible life you can. GOOD LUCK xoxo
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U deffinately should tell him i meen he does deserve 2 no that he has a kid and all...
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tell him and if he doesnt want to be apart of your childs life then screw him
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well u have to tell him thats the right thing to do and if he doesn;t want part in it than be like ok than but u should tell him and the best way to do it come right out with it the only best choice u got
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Yeah you should tell him. He has a right to know. Just think of it this way, what if he was the one pregnant debating on whether he would tell you or not. Wouldn't that make you mad? Congrats on the new life =]
xox good luck sweets.
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