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actually my friends problem..
My friend has a boyfriend and she says she loves him...she wrote i love him on her hand...but she says she also says she loves this other guy from a class she is in..i think this is wrong.But she obviously doesnt since she is always saying she loves both of them.Should i tell her boyfriend?Should i try and convince her that it is wrong?This is advice for my friend also...please anwser soon!!!
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ya, this is the person and her boyfriend broke up with her (i didnt say anything) and well she said she doesnt care at all about him and he cheated on her and she says she hates him , today she asked this girl who is in her class with the guy that she liked and he doesnt like her so ya well....poor her
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I would tell her bf... he should at least know!
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I think that your friend is just in love with being in love. Let her do what she wants to do. Just let her be and see what happens. :)
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No you shouldn't tell her boyfriend but you should try to talk to her about this. She's obviously not really "loving" both of them. So tell her this bothers you, and you want to talk about it.
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There are many different levels of "love". She could "love" her boyfriend with undying passion, and "love" this other guy as a friend. Unfortunately it's near-impossible to understand how powerful the word "love" is when it is said.
Chances are she's just young and "love" doesn't mean anything.
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Tell her what you think. Ask her why she's even going out with someone if she "loves" someone else too..
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You should try to talk to her before you tell her boyfriend. Just sit her down and talk to her, just be like "You have a boyfriend and I think thats great, and you write that you love him on your hand and then you tell me you love another guy in your class. But, you can't love both guys, you either don't love them both, or you just have a crush on one of them. But, I think that's wrong that you're saying you love them both when you have a boyfriend..." Just say something like that, I mean say it nice so she doesn't get all mad. And just tell her that she might be hurting her boyfriends feelings when she does that, and you don't want to see him get hurt. Just say stuff like that. I hope this helps and if you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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u should tell her boyfriend i kno it could be called underhanded but if u let this happen this guy might be getting hurt
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yeah to say she loves noth guys is wrong. Its also very disrespectful to her boyfriend, and it probably means she is till really immature and doesn't truelyl love eitehr of them. She either just thinks she does or just likes saying it. If I were you I wouldn't sweat her immaturity. If you try to explain to her what she's saying is wrong shes just gonna say your wrong, so don't even bother saying anything, just leave it alone.
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It seems like your friend sounds really young. She is most like just going through "puppy love". When you love some one, you REALLY love someone and you wouldn't go around confessing your undying love for another. I think your friend is too young to understand the full and real meaning of "love". I wouldn't tell her boyfriend, because it's not your place to say, that's between her and him. Eventually your friend will mature. In the mean time, you could make subtle comments like " I feel like when you are in TRUE/REAL love, it's only with one person, maybe one day when that happens to you, you will feel the same" This way you are saying what you want to say but you aren't being rude or fighting. Just give it time. Let her come around on her own. :)
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