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HeLP mE :(


Question Posted Thursday September 2 2004, 1:38 pm

Hey ... im a cutter and i have been every since the middle of 6th grade and i am just starting 7th .. its mostly cuz of boys and some cuzza my home life . it makes me feel good wen i hurt myself and i dont know why :( my mom dont know nd idk wut to do please help just I M me at YellowKissez207

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Zoinatrobe answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 11:16 am:
Sometimes life can be hard but if you continue cutting you might kill yourself, by accident or on purpose. Remember that you are beauiful and there are so many people that love you. Love yourself. Look at the positive side of things. Next time you get the urge to cut yourself, cut an orange or punch a pillow or something. If you can't stop by yourself, email the self harm alliance for free on support@selfharmalliance.org. Tell your Mum or one of your friends so they will support you. Break free.
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Paige answered Thursday September 2 2004, 8:13 pm:
hey~listen to me..i used to cut and have been known to continue doing...i know it's not good and i know how it makes you feel better but it's not good for you. It hurts those you love and even those you don't. and if it gets too bad you could end up like me...what i did partially ruined my life: everyone i really cared about started to hate me or at least what i did including my best friend and my boyfriend, i am currently on anti-depressants and have 5 forms of therapy...do you really wish to put yourself through all that? I'm not trying to scare you but you need to understand the consequences of what you're doing. This is going to sound really gay but try another way to express your feelings: draw, write in a journal or punch a pillow etc. etc. any questions just ask. good luck~buh bye
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misunderstood64 answered Thursday September 2 2004, 6:10 pm:
I know life's tough. I have major problems with home and boys but I don't cut. Please try to stop cutting. I've had friends that do it and you could seriously hurt yourself. Plus it leaves scars. Try to take your frustration, sadness, lonliness w/e in a postive way. I found taht it was easy for me to write. Whenever life feels like it just whipped me in the face I write poems or something to help. I liked the earlier suggesting about cutting a pillow or something. Try talking to someone..if you ever need help on anything IM me at calihottie46. I'm in 9th grade now and I totally understand how tough middle school can be. Find good friends and tell a friend who you REALLY trust so she can keep you acountable. If you aren't confortable with that I can help. Listen to music, watch movies, or anything to take out your anger. I hope i helped and I hope that you feel better!

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o0psychicwish0o answered Thursday September 2 2004, 4:41 pm:
You need to tell your mom. She will help you and will understand if you just tell her.

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BrunetteBeauti answered Thursday September 2 2004, 4:38 pm:
tell ur mom so u can get help

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Lizzy answered Thursday September 2 2004, 4:01 pm:
Don't hurt yourself over bois or over family, they are both gonna piss you off and get on your nerves but you need to tell them how much better you are then to hurt yourself. Rise above that.
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russianspy1234 answered Thursday September 2 2004, 3:53 pm:
boys arent worth crying over, and the one that is wont make you cry. really you can jsut stop? never really understood cutters to much. jsut deal with your emotional pain internaly like msot people do.

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xForeverxForgottenx answered Thursday September 2 2004, 3:52 pm:
i'd be happy to help you. my sn is blinkbabe2469. please im me. i used to cut but i stoped. it took some time but now im through with cutting. im too afraid to do it anymore. so please talk to me if you really want to get better.

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S_C answered Thursday September 2 2004, 3:40 pm:
well, if you think causing pain will make you feel better, then you can wear a pony tail holder, or rubber band, or anything that snaps easily around your wrist. Then whenevery you want to feel pain, or hurt your wrist, SNAP IT! if the earge is really strong, snap it really hard, either that will be your new obsession, or you will stop cutting and snapping. Sorry if it isn't much help, but it's all I got!

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