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idk wut 2 do


Question Posted Saturday August 28 2004, 7:41 pm

okay well theres this guy who has asked me out about 10 times and he wont stop asking me, and i keep saying no with excuses, how kan i tell him NO but in a nice way 2 get him2 go away? lol thanks.

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silent_x_cry answered Sunday August 29 2004, 4:42 pm:
Just tell him that you don't like him that way, and that you'd really appreciate it if he would respect you enough to just accept no as an answer, and stop asking you out. Try not to be mean, but make sure you get the point across. If it continues, you should probably talk to someone, because that's harassment.

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JessieV answered Sunday August 29 2004, 12:03 pm:
hi i would just tell him that i dont think it would really ever work and say sry can we still be friends and see what goes on from there. if u need anymore advice im at lilhottie921012

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xxoBriannax answered Sunday August 29 2004, 12:58 am:
Tell him you just want to be friends and to please stop bugging you.








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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Saturday August 28 2004, 11:40 pm:
Tell him u r simply not ready... & ur not lookin for a relationship... if hes askin u out on a date... just be like ur nice... but sorry im not interested

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x0x_summer_x0x answered Saturday August 28 2004, 11:32 pm:
lol. I HATE guys like that! They're sooo annoying. If I was you I'd just tell him that you already have a boyfriend and if he doesnt shut up u'll have him kick his a$$! lol... it's worked for meh before. =P [H][U][G][S] ~Summer

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blondebombshell33 answered Saturday August 28 2004, 10:58 pm:
OmG Hun! I know exactly how you feel! Last year there was this one guy who would ask me out constantly! Call me, write me notes, make me stuff even buy me stuff. He asked me out constantly not taking no for an answer. What I did is this: for the first couple of months I politely said no and would answer his calls, but I finally realized that it was to much. I had to firmly tell him no so he would stop. Because if you don't put an end to the annoyinness it will never end. You have to tell him NO with him getting the hint.... so if he dosnet stop after your polite no's... then its stalker/serious!]
LoL! hOpe I heLpEd ya Hun! GoOd lUcK! (p.s. why can't it ever be the Hot guys doin this) xOxO aLeX!

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russianspy1234 answered Saturday August 28 2004, 9:54 pm:
tell him no without exuses, exuses mean you want to go out with him but cant. guys cant take hints. jsut tell him gently that you arent intrested but youd be happy to be friends.

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manda44 answered Saturday August 28 2004, 8:50 pm:
i think u should just be like "dude i dont want a boyfriend right now. can u please stop asking me to go with you. we can be friends."
i think i would go off on him if he kept asking me. lol but thats me
Manda

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girdy_goo15 answered Saturday August 28 2004, 8:23 pm:
well just be honest. say that you appreciate that he's asking but that your not to go out with him. or something like that.

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ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Saturday August 28 2004, 8:18 pm:
Let this guy know that it's very flattering that he likes you,but that the feeling just isn't mutual.It may sound harsh or mean,but it really isn't because he needs to get the point.I've dealt with this before.One guy,when I was a sophomore,used to wait outside ALL my classes,wait at my locker,he got my number from someone and kept callin!!So,I know it gets to ya!! Just let him know that he deserves a girl who likes him as much as he likes her,and sadly that isn't you.Just flat out say,I'm not trying to hurt your feelings,but I'm just not interested in you like that!!! Best of luck,I'm sure everything will work out fine!! :)

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XxSXyKaYlYnXx answered Saturday August 28 2004, 8:18 pm:
TelL him your sorry but you just dont want a relationship-

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bAbYCHeeR792 answered Saturday August 28 2004, 8:17 pm:
Ahh Stalker! Sikeies!! Tehehe. Well, he must really like you, or be really desperate. Does it really bother you, because if it does, then you should really tell someone about it. When I say, NO means NO, usually people get the hint. Just give him the truth, that you don't like him.

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LilMia811 answered Saturday August 28 2004, 8:13 pm:
well it seems to me like youve been being nice. try to be nice once more, and simply be like, look you are a nice guy btu i am not intrested you, so please stop asking me to be with you. if he still keeps asking, fuckin yell at him. be like look you fuckin loser, i fuckin told you i dont like you, go stalk someone who actually likes you back. sometimes you have to be mean to make a point.

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spoiledx3shortii answered Saturday August 28 2004, 8:05 pm:
well i would ((next time he asks you out)) be like no.. we can be friends or whatever.. but i really don't like you like that.. tell him you can be friends.. but you dont feel the same..
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jesikuh977 answered Saturday August 28 2004, 7:55 pm:
tell him ur not interested right now and you dont want a relationship! and if he doesnt listen, you tell him how it is! dont be afraid to juss tell him what u flat out think! =D

*jesikuh

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Karen answered Saturday August 28 2004, 7:51 pm:
Just be like "I'm not interested in you right now. Can we just be friends for now and maybe in the future, we could have a relationship?" But you don't really have to go out with him, I was just saying lol. Hope I helped :)

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Saturday August 28 2004, 7:51 pm:
you can lie and say you have a b/f...or you could tell him that you dont see him like that...tell him that you cant see him more then just a friend...also say that yr sorry but you cant tell your heart what to do! hope i helped xoxo effy

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icey0990 answered Saturday August 28 2004, 7:48 pm:
Hey, just say "your a nice guy and im sure another girl would be very happy to be with you..but your not for me and i jusst want to be friends"
try it..hope it works!!
:)
-melissa-

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