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have a boyfriend-we never speak
Okay, I have a boyfriend who goes to my church (on wednesday nights) but i never see him because he never goes anymore and he doesn't go to my school. i want to dump him because i have this other boyfriend who i want to dump because he never sees me or calls me and i don't have his number and he doesn't go to my school. Okay, I want to dump both of them because I like this other boy who DOES go to my school and i know he likes me. If i ask him out though then ill have 3 boyfriends. i consider myself as if i don't have a boyfriend but i know i have to and soon will have 3. What to do?
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For starters: you need to chill. It is wrong to have a boyfriend who you don't want to be with. Dump them all and take care of yourself right now.
Naming someone as a boyfriend warrants a level of commitment, aeven if it's a small level...and that is to be respected. How would you feel if you truly liked any of these guys and they were dating other girls. It's not honest, and it's definately not fair to them.
I say that it's time for you to step up to the plate. You have a lot of maturing to do.
Dump them both, and figure out what you want. You don't need a boyfriend to be great. You are great on your own, remember that.
~AlexiaJayn
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gosh girl.. what a player.. not to be mean.. but what in the world were u thinking.. do they know u go out with other people? that isnt right to do that to guys. break up with the 2 u never talk to and start a relationship with the one u really like.. but not just because he likes u. dont just jump into relationships like that.. people will start to think stuff
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Why would you be in the position to have two to begin with? Do you feel that it makes you more appealing? Anyway, I think it's commendable that you do realize that you have to free yourself from the other two, regardless of how you term the relationships. This is really not a hard decision. If you want this third guy, then get rid of the other two. It's the only fair and MATURE thing to do.
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Jeez...you're a player. You better dump one of them or else tell the others the truth. Do not ask this boy out until you break it off with the other two boys. That's wrong. If this guy you likes ends up wanting to go out with you make sure you're honest with him from the start...and if you guys don't end up talking much, make that your job to call him up and keep in touch.
Dump the other two if you want to ask this guy out...
Or if you're not going to ask this guy out...dump at least one of your boyfriends that you have now...but then again...it's your decision, just don't break their hearts. :/
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Go with the boy at your school.It'll be easier and i'm sure it won't last long.
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Isn't that cheating?.. Well, dump the two you don't want, why go out with them if you don't care for the relationship? Go for the guy you actually do like, that will make this easier. If you don't talk to the other ones that much or see them often, then why bother?
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Are they really boyfriends or are you playing the field? If you are young, then its ok to have several guys to hang out with as long as you can keep them all straight. Eventually, there will be someone you like exclusively, but that will come in time.
It is very possible to be just friends with guys by the way. They can be very fun to talk to and use their advice on the male species.
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Disappear from civilized society and join a monastery in Sri Lanka. You need balance, minimalism, and you do NOT NEED a male in your life. Get out. Go. Drop it all and pack.
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you should break up with both of them and then go for that guy that will probably reach your satisfactoy.
good luck
-Babiegirl-
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Your cheating on your boyfriends? You know thats not good right? Well I'd say that you remain their girlfriend until you do see them. Or else you will be known as the unloyal girlfriend. Hold off on the boy that you like for a wile and choose between the two you're dating.
-shay :-)
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Since you have no way to get in touch with your first two boyfriends I don't think you are obligated to consider them boyfriends. But if you can get in touch with them, just let them know you are dumping them. If you run into them later after you have asked the 3rd boyfriend out, just let them know then that you are no longer their girlfriend.
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i was in the same kind of situation with one guy that i never saw and i mean never saw and then there was this other guy that i saw all the time at school and we even worked in the same music shop and he lived down my street and his parents were friends with mine so they were always over so i explained to the guy i liked that i have a b/f but i dont want him in your case it would be them then you can not be there g/f even if they dont know it they will soon find out aslong as the fact that you have not officialy brocken up with them doesnt bother the guy that you want to date.if you want to brake up with them but cant get a hold of them you can just say you have brocken up and then when you see them just tell them or try looking up there numbers or something.
p.s or you could always wait untill you see them again (yawn) as if you would want to do that.
ok well i hope this helps you im sorry i cant be more help if you have any other questions please ask
love darling xoxoxox
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