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Flirting..


Posted Monday January 7 2008, 5:08 pm

Really simple .. How do you flirt !? Ino it sounds stupid but i dnoo lol. Please help x

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showering together..


Posted Monday January 7 2008, 4:53 pm

ok so, im 15 and my boyfriend is 17. and we have been dating for 3 months now, and well we decided like we were going to go to our rec center, which is where the like community pool is and stuff and welll like we arent gonna have sex or anything but theres a family changing room and like the showers have curtains and stuff and we were planning on going in one of those like without bathing suits....and well i was wondering like what should i do because like we are just ognna be making out but what if he accidenlt like goes inn. any suggestions?

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Wat is he up 2?.


Posted Monday January 7 2008, 3:40 pm

ok well i started talking to this boy a cuople of days ago and i really like him and i get the feeling he likes me too! but my friend just told me that one of her friends mentioned his name. and she said that she didnt get to bed till very late because they were texting.! but i dont know if he likes her o their just friends. or if hes trying to talk to both of us What do u think?. What should i do?

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I think I like my teacher...


Posted Monday January 7 2008, 3:08 pm

i need help! i think i have a crush on my teacher. He's in his early 30s, blonde hair. It's not a crush crush, just a 'i like to flirt with you crush' because i like his wife and his children are adorable. -It's just that i may spend extra time hanging out with this teacher, and he sorta jokingly pushes me and stuff. and we make fun of each other... this is weird isn't it..? im a senior

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Ex-bf is threatening me..


Posted Monday January 7 2008, 12:48 pm

I don't know what else to do, this might be long but I really need help.
I'm 18/f and my bf recently broke up with me since I decided to respect my religion and not "do" things with him when he comes to visit my country next. (We both have diff. religions). So when he was breaking up (he did it online, he lives in another country, he studies there), he threatened me with things like "i will f*** you up so bad", "you will SO regret this", "i will show you what it means to get me angry", "you SO will suffer" and so on. And he will do those things when he visits his family (his family lives where I live..). He knows which uni I go to, and knows where my house is. He beat up his ex-gf bef...

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how do i know


Posted Monday January 7 2008, 2:17 am

my ex boyfriend, brandon, cheated on me. he told me he was going to an nba game and went to stay with a girl in a town 2 hours away for a week. well i found out the truth and we broke up... not in a bad way. we both just agreed we didnt work out. but we really liked eachother. well we went to prom together still and then never talked. i didnt even get pics. well i got a myspace and he added me one day. i was so stoked to talk to him again. then he started messaging me everyday. he asked for my number and told me he was comign home from college in a couple days. well he wants to hang out but i know im still gonna want him, but what if he just wants to be friends. how do i know or find out with out being obvious.

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want to stop the pain in my heart.


Posted Monday January 7 2008, 1:09 am

hello there, i am an 18 year old female. My boyfriend of three years broke up with me a month ago and recently told me that he does not love me anymore. I was really hurt at first because I do love him with all my heart but I realised I would rather be his friend than not in his life at all. He then told me that he did not want to be my friend, did not want to talk to me and wanted to forget about me. I dont understand why he wants all of this. if he does not love me then why does it bother him to talk to me. I dont talk to him about us. I talk to him about the world and things in life. Do you think he might still love me and it is hurting him to talk to me? Maybe if I leave him alone like he wants he will realise that he loves me too...

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Getting over it


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 11:23 pm

I spent the majority of last year head over heels for this guy. He claimed that he felt the same way. Long story short, he was warm one week and cold the next. I had no idea what was going on in his head. Around June I decided I didn't want to get hurt anymore so I tried ignoring him the whole summer. It worked until I saw him at a friends house. I couldn't help, I fell again.


We're now dating and have been for almost 4 months. He tells me that he had problems last year and didn't know what he wanted and was just confused. He says that he finally realized what was in front of him. I am happy to be with him because I've never felt this way about a guy before..I can't explain it.


The problem is he...

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sweet ......


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 10:01 pm

ok , i wanna do something sweet for my boyfriend . nothing big ya know . but just somthing to show him i love it . Maybe somthing i can do at my house , no money or anything .

any idea ?

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Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 8:32 pm

Okay this woman jodie says i am really pretty and wants me to date her son. She says i have a good personality and i am a truly beautiful girl, and thinks that i would be a good match for her son sterling. But the problem is i live in KY n he lives in IN. So the conversation kinda fell off in the distance. But the thing is i really wanna go on a date with her son the next time im there. But how do i say it without sounding desperate, or being too obvious?? thanks

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adviceee.?


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 6:37 pm

[14/f] okay soo im 14 yrs. old and i like this guys who is 17. he told me he liked me a while ago and i told him i liked him back, but he has a girlfriend. yesterday he said he loved me and there is just something about me. i told him i cant say it back cause i cant say it if i dont feel it. hes just perfecttt. hes done nothing more than makeout because he hasen't found the right girl and im in the same situation with a guy. what should i do about his girlfriend though.?

thank youu.<3

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Boyfriend troubles :/ help!


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 6:11 pm

I've been officially dating my boyfriend for about a month but we've been together for about seven. probably half of that time he was having sex with his ex girlfriend of a year and a half. I ended things twice with him, the first time hoping he would shape up and the second time I was just sick of all the drama with his ex. But he did shape up the second time and he officially was completely committed to me about 2 months ago. I'm not concerned one bit about his feelings for me. He's sometimes more romantic than me. He not only tells me he loves me and will never ever leave me, I can see he feels what he says. He's sometimes clingy and hates when I even talk to other guys. But I believe, once a cheater, always a cheater. So I check his mys...

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whats happening to me?


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 5:53 pm

ive never been the jealous or nagging or mad type. especially when it comes to boyfriends. ive always been the laid back girlfriend who never got attatched. and now i'm with someone i really like, and i sometimes just get mad for no reason. and then when i'm mad, i realize its for no reason and it gets me even more mad because i just wish i could go back and NOT be mad. and theres times when we spend soo much time together and i just want more. and one time recently i got mad when he went to go smoke with his bestfriend and this other girl. so me, and his bestfriends girlfriend(who is one of my bestfriends) were soo mad and flipped out. i was just jealous. but the thing is the girl they were smoking with im also friends with..so i had no re...

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I like my friend!


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 5:18 pm

16 F
I've known him since 7th grade and he used to CRACK me up! So anyways we instant message each other everyday and as soon as he signs on he messages me! Awhile ago I liked him a little bit but I wouldn't tell him because I knew it was just a temporary crush. Well he speaks spanish fluently and I just take it at school. It came up so I told him I was "raw" at spanish (hahaha) and he said ok lets try. So he starts out "why are you so retarded?" (we act REALLY silly together) then "what's my name?" then "why are we just friends?" then he says "do you have a boyfriend?" I said no. Then "why not, you're pretty." Then I said I didn't know, most boys are stupid. (Hahaha no ...

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Do boys only like skinny girls?


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 4:54 pm

I'm 16 and a girl and i just want to know why it seems like guys only like the skinnier kind of girls? I'm not that skinny and not that fat either but its hard for me to get a bf. i feel like that no guy wants me because im not skinny! Can somebody please help me and give me some advice on this topic? Thanks!

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What a jerk


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 2:12 pm

ok so over the summer i hung out with this guy a lot. But just as friends. So he kind of liked me more as a friend and i liked him too. But when summer ended he didn't even look at me in the halls at school. I don't really like him anymore but everytime I look at him i think of the fun times we have had together and I start liking him again. I really want to get my feelings straight. Do I like him or not? And why does he not even lok at me in the halls anymore?

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he asked me out....i don't like him


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 2:00 pm

16/f
This 15 year old guy asked me out (5 month difference in age) But I don't like him so much. I used to..when he was better looking and not so much of a jerk..as he is now. He assumed that I said yes. I didn't say yes. (He thinks I like him so much)
Well, I want to tell him no..Like in school. Or even online. But I don't know how to. I've never had a boyfriend before, and I don't want this one to be my first.

(Also because he told me we were going to engage in sexual acts. He told me that we would progress as a couple...I don't want that. It's disgusting)

How do I turn him down? =\

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I love my stepsister what should i do?


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 1:01 pm

I'm in love with my stepsister. She's fun to be around and jokes around alot and she's beautiful to me. I'm terrified of rejection so what should i do?

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i dont know what he wants part 2...


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 8:25 am

19/f
from Italy..

i wrote a few days ago that i liked my best friend ad that he is flirting with me and sending me mixed signals and i dont know what he wants...well i kind of tried 2 talk to him...i didnt say i liked him we talked in general about boy/girl things and he said that he doesnt know what he wants from a girl...that he might like someone alot but he is afraid to commit with her because it might not work out and then that girl wont talk to him anymore(that happend with his ex girlfriend ..they where dating 4 a month and when he broke up
she didnt wanne c him anymore but he didnt care about her because they werent friends)...and that when a relationship gets official he feels kind of obligated to do ...

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Guy help.


Posted Sunday January 6 2008, 5:37 am

Okay so I'm 15 and a girl and I've never had a boyfriend. I mean I don't think I'm very pretty but I'm not hideously ugly or anything. Guys like me and I've gotten asked out every now and then but it's never the guy I want or could potentially like. I guess it's cause I always fall for guys who are out of my league or whatever but how can I get more attention from guys? Especially guys I like?

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