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showering together..
ok so, im 15 and my boyfriend is 17. and we have been dating for 3 months now, and well we decided like we were going to go to our rec center, which is where the like community pool is and stuff and welll like we arent gonna have sex or anything but theres a family changing room and like the showers have curtains and stuff and we were planning on going in one of those like without bathing suits....and well i was wondering like what should i do because like we are just ognna be making out but what if he accidenlt like goes inn. any suggestions?
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dude its no way in hell your gonna get in that shower NAKED and JUST makeout lol its definetly gonna get further so if you plan on goin in there...put in mind that you will do ALOT more then makeout
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You know, you had me up until "what if he accidentally goes in"
You need to keep your pants on to avoid accidents, because it sounds like getting naked together is probably going to be too much temptation to have you two avoid doing something stupid.
If you cant have enough self control to not have "accidents" then you dont have enough self control to take risks that could lead to "accidents"
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I would suggest not getting naked together
in a public place for starters. Any parent
in the place could call police and you would
be trying to explain why you were naked in
a shower with a guy. I doubt real seriously
that your parents will buy that 'you didn't
do anything'.
Even though I'm sure it will get me a bad
rating, I will say it anyway. If you don't
no what to do with a naked guy, you aren't
old enough to be doing such things. :)
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If you want to, then you should do it. But if you are having doubts, then you shouldn't. Its youuurr decision. Basically, you never said how far you went. If he tries to go in youu, then push him away and give a hand job, if youve already done that (if you haven't, then dont do it unless your readyy)
Don't have sex in public places. It's illegal.
Also, make sure if you do do it, that you take off your clothes when your in, so no children see you. That would scar them.
If you do end up going through with this, make sure it's planned out.
Have funnn :)
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First, if you even have a bad feeling about this, then chances are you shouldn't do it. It's all about your comfort and security. if you reallly want to do this, i do suggest not doing that in a public place. it will feel kinda weird and is sooo not romantic.
Make sure his little friend doesn't slip into anything by either not touching that close, or not doing that at all. sorry, not many options.
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I suggest not doing this in such a public place where there will be families and probably children around. You might want to do that in the privacy of your own homes. Just make sure he controls his little sucker and does not go in you.
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