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how do i know
my ex boyfriend, brandon, cheated on me. he told me he was going to an nba game and went to stay with a girl in a town 2 hours away for a week. well i found out the truth and we broke up... not in a bad way. we both just agreed we didnt work out. but we really liked eachother. well we went to prom together still and then never talked. i didnt even get pics. well i got a myspace and he added me one day. i was so stoked to talk to him again. then he started messaging me everyday. he asked for my number and told me he was comign home from college in a couple days. well he wants to hang out but i know im still gonna want him, but what if he just wants to be friends. how do i know or find out with out being obvious.
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I mean in a way he could take it either way and then keep adding on to that and eventually he will tell you or start makin out wit yu either way you got yur answer. =]
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Well without being obvious, you might not even find out the truth. Honestly, just straight out asking "hey do you like me as just a friend or is it more than that?" sounds tough, but it draws the line and makes things a lot clearer for the both of you. If you are trying to find out before he comes you should ask him. If you really feel uncomfortable with asking him, then ask what he would have in mind to do and if he would mind you inviting some of your friends. If he is leaning towards just spending time with you alone it could be a more-than-just-friends kind of thing...but still no guarantee. If you decide to wait for him to be there to find that out then just focus on the way he talks to you and the way he treats you. Be a bit cautious though, since he did cheat on you before. You can be fair and give him a second chance, but always be aware of what you might be getting yourself into. So ask him what he wants to do, focus on the way he treats and talks to you if he does come over and even before he does, and if you are confident enough you can straight out ask him to find out the truth. It isn't a bad thing for girls to ask a guy that. Hope that helped and good luck.
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