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whats happening to me?
ive never been the jealous or nagging or mad type. especially when it comes to boyfriends. ive always been the laid back girlfriend who never got attatched. and now i'm with someone i really like, and i sometimes just get mad for no reason. and then when i'm mad, i realize its for no reason and it gets me even more mad because i just wish i could go back and NOT be mad. and theres times when we spend soo much time together and i just want more. and one time recently i got mad when he went to go smoke with his bestfriend and this other girl. so me, and his bestfriends girlfriend(who is one of my bestfriends) were soo mad and flipped out. i was just jealous. but the thing is the girl they were smoking with im also friends with..so i had no reason to worry. whats happening to me! he tells me its okay, and he understands how i get mad sometimes-but i don't understand it. any ideas on how to just start being more chill..do i need to count to ten and just say "ok" or what? helllllp.
thanks!
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It's hard not to be jealous of your boyfriend- there are lots of girls out there, and it's normal to be paranoid. Honestly, nothing is really happening to you, you're just paranoid that someone will make a move on your guy.
You need to try your best to reassure yourself that your boyfriend is not cheating on you. When you get jealous, tell yourself that you completely trust him and you know he loves you.
Maybe counting to ten would be a good idea. Or taking a deep breath and telling yourself that everything is fine.
Trust your boyfriend.
Good luck
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It's NORMAL to be a little jealous or worried because you really like him. It sounds like its not him your worried about its about the other girls and what they might do.
Just trust him, if he cares for you as much as you care for him and just remind yourself its not worth the effort that your putting into being angry.
Distract yourself with an activity you like to take your mind of stuff.
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