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Furthering Releations
Posted Thursday January 31 2008, 2:46 am
I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 15 turning 16 soon, We've been together a several months now, we plan to be tgether for a LONG time. So everytime we are making out or anything and i go to move further, (fingering her or gttting her hand down my pants)i dont know whether to be direct and ask her if she want me to finger her or for her to rub me. Would girls rather i ask them before i do, or wait till i do it for a "dont do that"? I've rubbed around her vaginal area before but never gone inside, I asked if she wanted me to just rub above and she said yes..then after i went to go back down and she told me not to, she hurt her leg recently and so i asked if it was because it was hurting or whether she didnt want me to...she said both. ***...
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what to do?
Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 10:55 pm
so theres this boy. over winter break i went to a party where i met him and i thought he was super cute but i thought my friend and him were interested in eachother so i didnt talk to him really. until later that night where he told me he didnt like her but for a friend. we immediately hit it off and we "hooked up" about 6 times over break and he was all about us hanging out like everyday. but i knew he just got out of a serious relationship so i wasnt pressuring anything. so after school start back we drifted. so i messaged him on myspace and asked what was up and he told me he felt it was best if we quit talking for no aparent reason. he didnt even want to be friends. so all the time, everyday he was ALL i thought about. until o...
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My x....
Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 10:09 pm
Okay well my ex boyfriend and I broke up about a year ago but lately we have been flirting alot and I have told him I like him but he keeps telling me that he wants to be my..."best friend" (men) anyways so at a party he asked me to dance but I said no because he likes my best friend Taylor and I know she kind of likes him but she is in LOVE with another guy. So anyways I told him that I was over him and that I wanted to be his BFF, well lately we have been flirting even more but so are me and his best friend who is also hot. But I kinda like another guy. Well today he totally put his arm around me and I really liked it so I didn't tell him to stop but I don't know whether to take that as hey best bud or I want you back? Plus ther...
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what should i do about what is going on with my boyfriend an
Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 9:27 pm
okay my name is michaela nad i am a tough girl usually but when it comes to my boyfriend i feel older yet like i dont have to stand up for some things because he is there..... so a while back i thought my boyfriend was cheating on me because some gurl said she loved my guy!! well i think that she just has a crush on him. but well we have gone out three times. four and a half mounths was the longest but i have know him for a year and a half. well today we were walking and i called him retarded as a joke because he was being stupid. and after that i accidentally said "i love you." it just slipped. i wasnt even ready to tell him that and i dont think he was ready to hear it. but he said it back at least but really really quiet. i am ...
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party
Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 9:03 pm
okay so my friend jeff is having a party on friday & i have a crush on my friend tyler. tyler's going to be at the party and i really want to like hang out with him at the party..we're all also sleeping over, so how do i flirt with him without being completely overbearing? thanks!
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is he using me? =|
Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 8:46 pm
16/f with my first bf (he's 15, five months younger than me)
well, he's really REALLY experienced...I mean, this guy's been in relationships for like 10 years lol
well, I'm not into hookups. I'm into a really...passionate relationship. like, very loving.
we've been going out for 23 days.
and he's already grabbing at my crotch and feeling me up.
i mean, i like it and all. it's like fine...whatever.
but when he does sexual things like that, i feel really embarrassed. and he even QUESTIONS me after...like....why did you yell, you didn't like it?
sometimes he slowly forces things on me. like, he went up my shirt and onto my bra, and started touch...
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Liking Him
Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 8:43 pm
I have been best friends with a guy named Dan for over five years. We get along so well, and we kind of flirt with eachother. Now, I've begun to realize that I like him, more than just a friend. It's the classic situation: I want to tell him how I feel but I'm so scared that it'll ruin the friendship (if he doesn't like me, that is). Right now we're really close, but we flirt, so it's not like that weird, brother and sister relationship. What should I do? I'm running out of time because a lot of girls like him and I don't think he'll be single for too long. Thanks
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how can you tell if a boy likes you?
Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 7:42 pm
how do you tell if a 13-14 year old boy likes you? im in 8th grade and there are some guys im not too sure about.. like what hints would they be? thanks :) 14/f
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guy friend
Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 6:44 pm
I have a guy friend, let's call him Joe. Joe and me talk quite frequently, and we just started this thing where we walk to class together sometimes. I want to know how to flirt without going overboard. Keep in mind that I'm not going to change myself to match his interests, and I know the whole speech about being myself. I just need some simple, foolproof tips that he can pick up on. He's very shy, and isn't one of those guys that flirts with every girl.
We already talk between passing period in the hall, but today, I was walking to Art, and he actually went out of his way to walk with me. :) Also, I'm not asking to be his girlfriend [although it would be nice], I just want to get 'closer' to him.
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:he has a gf
Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 5:13 pm
ok im 14/f
the guy i like is 13
and hes perfect an every single way!
for real he is!
perfect hair perfect body
perfect smile
and perfect girl friend!!
i have been crushing on this guy for ever but resonantly its been over whelming every where i turn there he is.
its making me crazy!
we talk every day we flirt every day we hug every day until last Monday.where this girl asked him out!and i was just about to ask him. but she butted right in and was like will you go out with me and he looked up at me if i was supposed to tell him the answer/witch i wish i had!\ ok anyway today in p.e he was standing next to one of his perfect friends and he smiled at me i mean im not usually the g...
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help part 4
Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 4:55 pm
ok. i'd first like to thank everyone who has been answering my other quistions. I greatly apriciate it. BUt lets hope this is the final chapter. ( probably wont be) lol But ok here it goes. Since my mom new abot my boyfriend and i, I told him that I told my mom, that his bro and his bros gf had sex, ( knowing she wouldnt care) but my bf told his bro. ANd his bro is mad at me, and I know he has a right to be, cause I do get into other peoples buissness, but i'm working on it. N e ways, he got his gf ( who was my bf) mad at me. Were talking now, but i feel she has a right to be mad at me. But I mean, he's ALLWAYS butting in on mine and my bfs phone conversations. SO what do I do? Or what would you do?
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confusedd
Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 4:55 pm
I am in love with this boy. I am 14/f and dont say im too young to know what love is because i would do anything for him. There is no such thing as being too young to love. Well he is in almost all of my classes in school. We sit near each other in most of them. We always flirt and hang out and are close but no t best friends. Well whenever i look over at him, hes looking at me, and i smile and he smiles back and looks away quickly. Well we are always flirting and everyone always says just go out already and he gets embarrassed and looks down so i am pretty sure he likes me but almost positive he doesnt love me. His name is "CHRIS" btw
His close friend is "SAM" well i am close with him too. Everyone says h...
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He likes another girl =[
Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 4:01 pm
Sounds whiney but here's where Im stuck. He means everything and theres this gorgeous girl that goes to my school. She's Latina and Absolutley perfect in every way of course - and ... he likes her. I know that he does. Maybe not Loves her, but at the same time I know he likes her alot and it just hurts me so much. I've tried confidence tactics.. everywhting. We're quite close... but now we're drifting, because of her!! It seems shes faultless as well.. and he stops tlkaing to me so much now, and I know that hes talking to her in the meantime. The worst thing is, she's nice. She's slim. She's gorgeous. Im slim, Im not a touch on her though. I know he likes me too... but... I just need help. What should I do XD? This is making me down all the...
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how do I get rid of him
Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 2:34 pm
Ok I have a boyfriend named jesse and he's a skater........I'm a emo I dont want 2 be with him anymore I'm in love with a guy named josue who is also emo but I don't want 2 brake up with jesse because I don't want 2 hurt him......please help me out my heart belongs 2 josue
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Should I or Shouldn't I???
Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 1:59 pm
Hi i'm 14/f
There is this boy that i absolutely love he is just so nice and great in every single way he really likes me too he even said he loves me in person.
I'm a really like 'good' girl and i'm asian so you know how family is like really important and you can't get a boyfriend you can only get married once your 25 or whatever.
I really want to go out with him and i know this realationship will last but i hate going behind my parents back but i really love him what do i do?
Thank you so so much
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help part 3.
Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 5:37 am
ok, yes i'm the one whos parents just found out about her having sex..-lol-a little sense of humor left.N E ways, yeaterday, I talked to my bf about how my parents felt, cause I felt he had a right to know...but after I told him, he syas, that we shouldn't see each other anymore. But I remindeed him that he promised. And he DID promise me that he would stick with me through thick and thin. Then he says, that he's sorry, and he dosn't make promises he dosnt intend on keppin. And I know it sounds like I keept him with me, but later yesterday, I told him numorous times, that it's his desision, and it's his choice. THen he said that he wouldnt leave me. SO he's secure. But do I belve him? DOes anyone think we'll last? I just need ideas, and hel...
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This girl won't stop.
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 11:57 pm
16/f. I have a boyfriend (same age). We've been going out for a month. He's my first bf..But yeah. My (ex) best friend (girl) ...well, she's been getting on my nerves about me and him. See, the thing is...she used to like him...and flirt with him all the time. But in the end, he chose me over her..I don't know why...But he did. And now she won't leave me alone. She bitches at me, calls him names, tells me not to kiss him in front of me and when I did, she's like...HOW WAS IT?, spies on us and tells her friends what we did, starts arguments over it. I'm asking her to be honest..like...do you LIKE him or WHAT? And she's all...ew ew noo noo ew he's gross, how can you even kiss him.
Yet...she looks for every possible way to flirt with h...
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Should I go with him or the other guy?
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 11:10 pm
Recently I had asked a boy from my church if he would like to my bf, and he said he would think about it and and I am still waiting for him answer, but(there's always that but), my ex-bf has just told me his feelings for me despite his current gf who has cheated on him like 3 times. I don't know who to choose. The boy from my church is really the sweet, quiet type. But my ex-bf is the type of guy who will tell me his feelings about a situation and is always telling and showing how he feels (the sensitive type). I have known my ex-bf longer- about 1 year- and I just met the church boy. They both are incredibly sweet guys. It feels like a really hard decision that I hate to make considering that I am a big person who comes to liking guys and...
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lovebite turn on
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 11:05 pm
"On your first date with him, give him a lovebite on the top of his shoulder from behind! This turns him on completely! This is the perfect thing to do when you're in the cinema. (this works with most guys) "
whats a lovebit? please be specific
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conversation witha guy
Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 10:48 pm
what the hell can u talk about with when youre with a guy you like and just hanging out at lunch..
coz it gets too quiet and awkward and i dont want him to think im B0RiNG!!!
help me with some good topics/ conversations to alk about
list them out if you can (:
thanks !
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