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This girl won't stop.
16/f. I have a boyfriend (same age). We've been going out for a month. He's my first bf..But yeah. My (ex) best friend (girl) ...well, she's been getting on my nerves about me and him. See, the thing is...she used to like him...and flirt with him all the time. But in the end, he chose me over her..I don't know why...But he did. And now she won't leave me alone. She bitches at me, calls him names, tells me not to kiss him in front of me and when I did, she's like...HOW WAS IT?, spies on us and tells her friends what we did, starts arguments over it. I'm asking her to be honest..like...do you LIKE him or WHAT? And she's all...ew ew noo noo ew he's gross, how can you even kiss him.
Yet...she looks for every possible way to flirt with him. And he doesn't pay attention to her. She even like ...puts his name in her myspace about me...how she looks forward to seeing him every morning and how he makes her day...Things like that.
Honestly, I'm getting a bit suspicious. Not about my boyfriend and her...but just her behavior.
Would you think she still REALLY likes him? =|
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Ok, look her sweetie, you either choose some bitch or the guy you like. I say choose the guy but if u are me, I would call that bitch out and pound her into the concrete! Not to be like full of it but ik that I'm pretty an ik that guys like me, and when I makeout with my bf and someone has a comment, ik the r just jealous, so who gives a shit? NOT ME!! haha!! Look all you gotta do is confront her about it and ask her to stop nicely amd if she doesn't, you hav my blessing to teach that whore a lesson
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ofcourse she likes him!And shes mad jealous of you too!Everything she does proves it man.Tell her to shut the hell up and stop bitchin,shes suppoesd to be your freind.Confront her about it again and if she don stop then you gotta go yell at her for it man.Tell her that what you and your boyfreind do is none of her frikin buisness,what the hell does she like have no life other to know what you guyz do?Id go smak her if it got to far man.
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It's pure jealosy, that's all it is. What she's doing isn't to annoy you (even though it seems like it), it's to get back at you. Why? Because you're having a relationship which she didn't have with him and naturally, she will feel upset about this because you're having a realtionship which she wanted to have with him.
It is abvious (well, to me it is) that she still has feelings for him, but she denys it when other speak to her wbout it because she doens't want to accept the truth about the two of you.
Put youself in her shoes. YOu really like this guy and you want to go out with him and your sending out the right signs, but then somebody else comes along and he chooses her, not you. You'd feel naturally upset about this, wouldn't you? This is how she feels.
Talk to her and help her through this. Tell her things like things happen for a reason, and the reason for this is because there is a better guy for her out there, and that one day, she will be happy with that guy. She needs to let go of what was and move on to what is to come and look for Mr Right.
I hope this helped,
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