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what should i do about what is going on with my boyfriend an
okay my name is michaela nad i am a tough girl usually but when it comes to my boyfriend i feel older yet like i dont have to stand up for some things because he is there..... so a while back i thought my boyfriend was cheating on me because some gurl said she loved my guy!! well i think that she just has a crush on him. but well we have gone out three times. four and a half mounths was the longest but i have know him for a year and a half. well today we were walking and i called him retarded as a joke because he was being stupid. and after that i accidentally said "i love you." it just slipped. i wasnt even ready to tell him that and i dont think he was ready to hear it. but he said it back at least but really really quiet. i am kinda freaked out and i dont know how i am going to react around him. i think i should just act normal but i seriously i dont think i can now. what should i do?!?!?!?!?!
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Play it cool. If he starts acting werid the best thing you can do is ask him why and talk about it
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Ok i think you should juss play it cool and stop freaking your self out...he said it back too!!And you coulda meant "i love you "as a freind although he knows you like him as a crush.
Just let it go and dont freak out around him or eles he will too.Unless he asks you then just tell him it came out at the wrong time and at that moment i meant i luved you as a freind but i like you as a boyfreind.
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I know this might be a little tough for you, but honestly I'd suggest that you sit him down and tell him basically what you just told me: that you weren't ready to say that and it slipped. Now, just because you're not ready to "say that" in terms of your relationship doesn't mean that you do not love him. Spread the love far and wide, dear! Love everybody and don't be ashamed of it (I mean the feeling, not anything physical). Just because you love somebody doesn't mean you're IN love with them. Those are two separate things.
If you're uncomfy telling him then write an open and honest note and ask him to read it while you're present and to ask any questions or concerns that he may have. Don't let little things like this rule your life, it's such a small annoyance really that you may have freaked him out but if you're open and honest about it (and if he is open and honest about it) you both can work it out. Happy talking!
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well, there is one of three things you can do.
1) you can act like nothing happened and go on with your life
2) you can talk to him about the situation, such as asking him if he really likes you
3) you can keep on running away from your problems and break his heart
i would do the second one, but it is your choice for you to make.
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