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how do I get rid of him
Ok I have a boyfriend named jesse and he's a skater........I'm a emo I dont want 2 be with him anymore I'm in love with a guy named josue who is also emo but I don't want 2 brake up with jesse because I don't want 2 hurt him......please help me out my heart belongs 2 josue
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simple truth -
just break up with him .
it might hurt him, and it'll probably hurt/be a little difficult for you, but you have to do it. you're leading him on, which could really hurt him and even you.
also, try not to be so focused on cliques. the way you say that jesse's a skater and josue's an emo is a little weird.
hope i helped! good luck<3
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Suck it up and just do it. The longer you leave it, the more hurt he will be. How can you possibly have a boyfriend when your "heart belongs to someone else"? It's unfair to him. It's unfair to you.
Break up for both of your sake and do it in a decent way - face to face - and just simply tell him you don't feel the same way anymore and you'd be happier if you were just friends. Yeah, he will be hurt, but it's better than you stringing him along.
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look your hurting yourself by not being with the person that you want. so do it now before he gets more stuck on you and its gonna be harder for him.
if you dont want to do that then just make him break up with you. its what i did with my ex boyfriend i got whinney and just annoying so he would dump me, i didnt want to hurt him, becuase he said i was his life so i would suggest you do that. but the truth is always better trust me. <3
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Must... resist urge... to tell you... to cut yourself...
Yea, break up with him, and throw him a nice, "It's not you, it's me." Only in this case it is actually you.
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There's no way of breaking up with someone without hurting them. The longer you put it off, the more he will be hurt. You just have to do it.
Look at it this way- By putting it off, you are being unfair to Jesse and yourself, and also wasting each other's time. You need to be able to move on because you want to, and he needs to know that so he can move on, too.
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I'm not really familiar with the whole 'emo/skater' clique. Regardless, if you aren't happy being with your boyfriend, break up with him. Yeah, he'll be hurt. But him being heartbroken about it doesn't outweigh you being unhappy and not in love.
As for Josue, I don't really know what to say. I know I personally couldn't break up with someone and turn around and be with another person.
Good luck!
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