Question Posted Wednesday January 30 2008, 5:37 am
ok, yes i'm the one whos parents just found out about her having sex..-lol-a little sense of humor left.N E ways, yeaterday, I talked to my bf about how my parents felt, cause I felt he had a right to know...but after I told him, he syas, that we shouldn't see each other anymore. But I remindeed him that he promised. And he DID promise me that he would stick with me through thick and thin. Then he says, that he's sorry, and he dosn't make promises he dosnt intend on keppin. And I know it sounds like I keept him with me, but later yesterday, I told him numorous times, that it's his desision, and it's his choice. THen he said that he wouldnt leave me. SO he's secure. But do I belve him? DOes anyone think we'll last? I just need ideas, and help cause I just want to get this problem as fixed as possible. ALso, my bf and I both decided that were not going to have sex for a LONG time. so thats done, but any help?
triquetra answered Wednesday January 30 2008, 1:49 pm: Hi, me again. He made a promise to you which he said he will keep, that's all you need to be sure about this realtionship.
If the couple aren't sure about the relationship, it won't last. But if they are, then it will last for a very long time.
Don't doubt yourself about this, keep faith in the love the two of you share together. Plus, it's evident that he really does like you because:
a) He's kept his word, he will go through thick and thin with you and
b) Don't be afraid, if your sfriad, then you could be pushed into a decision which you won't like. Keep your mind focused upon the two of you. The two of you made a good decision about the sex, keep it down for a while until things get straightened out between you and your parents.
And remember, nothing which people can say can destroy what is between the two of you.
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