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what to do?
so theres this boy. over winter break i went to a party where i met him and i thought he was super cute but i thought my friend and him were interested in eachother so i didnt talk to him really. until later that night where he told me he didnt like her but for a friend. we immediately hit it off and we "hooked up" about 6 times over break and he was all about us hanging out like everyday. but i knew he just got out of a serious relationship so i wasnt pressuring anything. so after school start back we drifted. so i messaged him on myspace and asked what was up and he told me he felt it was best if we quit talking for no aparent reason. he didnt even want to be friends. so all the time, everyday he was ALL i thought about. until one day he messaged me and we started talking again. so i told him we should be "hookup friends" again and he said yes but we would just be like friends with benefits. i kinda feel like hes using me but i want to be with him so bad. even if it means just for sex. i know that sounds super bad but i really like him. and he was all about us "hooking up" again and now hes like blowing me off and being short with me. what do i do? i need some serious help here.
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alright first of all i dont think its a good idea to be with him even if its juss for sex like you said man.Thatll just make you like him ten times more and hell end up using you cuz i really dont think he likes you that way.Like you said he just got outta a serious relationship,meaning he might still have some bit of feelings leaft for his ex and he cud be doin all of this just to get over her.There are many reasons why he just stopped talkin to you,
1- he got bored and wanted to play some other gurl
2- he wanted to you like him even more so when hed come bak to u youd do anything for him
3- he cuda been seein his ex again
The only proof of a guy liking you is when he says it.I know its hard when you like a guy to just forget about him but i really think you should.Unless you wana go and demand an explanation to why hes blowing you off like dat and what he feels for you.
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OK, honestly, weather you realize it or not, the main reason you can't get him off your mind is because he blew you off. We always find the unreachable more desirable. Don't know why. I have been through this b4 & the minute you said, he told you he didn't want to talk anymore, I was mad. He is an ass. I know it's hard, but, delete him from your myspace & forget about him as quickly as you can. I mean even if he didn't want a relationship with you, there is no reason you two can't be friends right? So, why did he act like that? He's an ass! Plain & simple. Get rid of him. Don't give him the satisfaction of chasing him!
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