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Q: so theres this boy. over winter break i went to a party where i met him and i thought he was super cute but i thought my friend and him were interested in eachother so i didnt talk to him really. until later that night where he told me he didnt like her but for a friend. we immediately hit it off and we "hooked up" about 6 times over break and he was all about us hanging out like everyday. but i knew he just got out of a serious relationship so i wasnt pressuring anything. so after school start back we drifted. so i messaged him on myspace and asked what was up and he told me he felt it was best if we quit talking for no aparent reason. he didnt even want to be friends. so all the time, everyday he was ALL i thought about. until one day he messaged me and we started talking again. so i told him we should be "hookup friends" again and he said yes but we would just be like friends with benefits. i kinda feel like hes using me but i want to be with him so bad. even if it means just for sex. i know that sounds super bad but i really like him. and he was all about us "hooking up" again and now hes like blowing me off and being short with me. what do i do? i need some serious help here.
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OK, honestly, weather you realize it or not, the main reason you can't get him off your mind is because he blew you off. We always find the unreachable more desirable. Don't know why. I have been through this b4 & the minute you said, he told you he didn't want to talk anymore, I was mad. He is an ass. I know it's hard, but, delete him from your myspace & forget about him as quickly as you can. I mean even if he didn't want a relationship with you, there is no reason you two can't be friends right? So, why did he act like that? He's an ass! Plain & simple. Get rid of him. Don't give him the satisfaction of chasing him!
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Q: Well Me & This Guy Lets Call Him Light Me and him has been talkin about datin for about maybe a month now and he would do anything in this world for me he is relly sweet and i relly like him and he says he loves me we have neva dated before we lost contact with each other about 2 years or so agao and now we got back in contact so he said he aint gonna lose me so what do you think but today my ex called that was engaged to we aint talked sence we broke up relly and he wants me back he said he relized he made a mistake so yeah i dont know what to do my sister hates my ex that i was engaged to what to u think i should do im so confused..oh and my ex dumped his woman for me!.
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Well, it's very simple. I'm sure u have feelings for both of them, but, which one gives you butterflies when you see them? Which one do you think about all day & can't wait to see? That is the one you will be happiest with. Good Luck!
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Q: hi.
i asked how to make a video for myy friend that passed.
i don`t know how to upload a song at all.
i want don't cry by.guns and roses on the video.
she loved guns and roses && i think it would be a good song anyways.
so if you could help that would be amazing
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You need a music program like...www.limewire.com
It is free & you can download any song you want. Once you get music onto your computer, you can upload your songs from there. Good Luck & sorry about your loss.
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Q: okay myy friend holly has recently passed away.
yeah its horrible they don`t whether she hung herself or if her boyfriend did it =(
anyways i`d like to make a video thingy for her with pictures && music but i have no clue on even how to start. i have the greastest pictures of her smiling && wit each of her friends. i know people would love to see it.including her mom =)
so if you could help that would be amazing.
thanks so much in advance
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www.onetruemedia.com it is an awesome site for making montages.
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Q: okay...i played a WORST WORST prank on my friend and i made her cry..yes it was my fault her bestfrriend confront me more like she cuss me out about it.
after that me and my friend is made up. i thought we were good, but her best friend is keep bothering me like saying" we're not cool if you do this to my friend i'll wh00p your butt and saying shes gonna beat me up. even thought me and my friend is not fighting anymore i know its my fault but why would she in this business?
how can i stop her from threatening me even though the drama is over? please answer this seriously because its a pain in a butt
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well, basically, she is playing the "good friend" card. You did something wrong, which knocked you down a couple of points & put her in the higher friend bracket. Know what I mean? So, she is milking it like a child. Unfortunately, you will either have to ignore her & eventually it will stop or...get back in her face. Tell her to leave you the hell alone or you will kick her ass. Acting like that is really the only way people back off. Also, talk to your friend about it. She may be able to intervene before it gets that far.
Good Luck!
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Q: I have all these scars all over my legs, from bug bites and shaving cuts and lil things like that. They're always purplish and whenever I'm wearing a skirt or shorts they really stand out. Is there anything that I can put on them to make them less noticeable?
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Try Whitch Hazel. It is an astringent for things like that. It is supposed to help in healing bruises & things like that faster. So, it may work.You can buy it almost anywhere in the beauty section.
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Q: Please don't tell me it's bad for you, i know. I'm going to begin tanning this week because i have a "ceremony" to go to this Sunday night. It will be my first time tanning at a salon, and to tell teh truth I'm kinda nervous. I want to get as DARK as possible. Is there anyway I can go twice a day? How longs shoudl i go for one session? Do i needa get lotion, if so which kind and where can i get it? Also, do I need to buy goggles? Am I too young to tan? 14, going on 15 in 2 months. thanks : )
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OK...to get a darker tan by then, you are going to want to go into a level 4 or 5 bed. Also, stay in for the maximum time allowed witch is 15 mins. The tanning lotion does help & you have to buy it there. It is specifically designed for tanning beds. And yes, you will need goggles. The only problem is...for your first time, they don't like to really start you out that high. Just talk to them about it & it also depends on your ability to tan. Do you burn or tan well? Everyone noticed a difference on me after 2 times. Hope all goes well!
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Q: where is a place where I can find Halloween layouts for myspace - a site or code please?
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http://www.marksgraphichelp.com/index.php?page=layouts/halloween.html
They have a variety of cool halloween layouts & graphics.
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Q: f/18
i dont want anymore hair down ther what is the best way to get rid of it
like shave
wax or what ?
i really dont know
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Ummm, yea, I guess the answer below is one option. (haha). But, if you would like a more conventional way...first, it is always best to get most of it off with an electric razor. Then, use the veet hair removal cream w/ the bladeless razor. It is an awsome way for me & does make it smooth. Waxing is really the best way to go, but, it really, really hurts! GL.
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Q: ok so my teacher game me an F on a oral presentation, and when i asked why she said "it needed to be more heartwarming, cheesy, mushy..it need to make me cry for you to get an A" (she cries quite easily.. she cried during like 4 oral presentations so far! haha) anyways, im redoing the presentation and it's about "my favorite place" and i guess she wants me to say things like "this is where i learned to love" and thing equally cheesy (its going to be so embarrising doing this infront of my class!) but i need n A in this - so help! have you ever heard a heartwarming speech that moved you? and sentences or expression that are good to use?
thanks!
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I just got this in an e-mail. Use something along these lines, but, of course turn it around to make it your own story. I guarentee she will be blubbering like a baby...
It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams. There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time to spend with his wife and son. He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him.
Over the phone, his mother told him, "Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday." Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days.
"Jack, did you hear me?"
"Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago," Jack said.
"Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence' as he put it," Mom told him.
"I loved that old house he lived in," Jack said.
"You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life," she said
"He's the one who taught me carpentry," he said. "I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important...Mom, I'll be there for the funeral," Jack said.
As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.
The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time.
Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture....Jack stopped suddenly.
"What's wrong, Jack?" his Mom asked.
"The box is gone," he said
"What box?" Mom asked.
"There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was 'the thing I value most,'" Jack said.
It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it.
"Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him," Jack said. "I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom."
It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. "Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days," the note read.
Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. "Mr. Harold Belser" it read. Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside.
"Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life." A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch.
Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover. Inside he found these words engraved:
"Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser."
"The thing he valued most was...my time"
Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days. "Why?" Janet, his assistant asked.
"I need some time to spend with my son," he said.
"Oh, by the way, Janet, thanks for your time!"
"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away,"
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Q: well my boyfriend went to army training for a few months. So hes not gunna be around but we are still together. and theres this kid cody who likes me who hangs out with my friends so im with him too. and he is always flirting with me. and for some reason i like even though im deeply in love with my boyfriend. i dont want to do anything stupid because my boyfriend is gone because we are planning on being together for ever. So is it normal to be happy that this kid is flirting with me? and should i stop hanging around this kid? anything with be apreciated
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OK, I am going through the same thing and I'm married with children! LOL. Now, I actually have a little bit of a crush on my BFF's husband. He jokes around with me, he stares, does a little arm touching & all kinds of things like that. Well, I felt pretty bad & weird about the way I felt, so, I went looking for info on the net & even asked some other people about it. So, to make a long story short...it is perfectly normal to feel that way or even enjoy the attention. EVERYONE has those feelings every once in a while. As long as your not acting on it & nobody is getting hurt in anyway, it is fine. I even found out it is called, "friendly flirting." Which basically means no harm. So, keep having fun & there is nothing to feel bad about.
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Q: at what age do you have to get that checkup the gyno one? and im young and i am not a virgin. And i dont want the doctor to know that. But just what age?
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Usually, it is said that you should start getting your "yearly's" done when you start having your period. Now, the Dr. will be able to tell if you have been sexually active, but, don't worry, because they do stick to the patient/confidentiality rule & shouldn't tell your parents anything.
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Q: 16/f
how do you exactly grind with someone? like a guy...its gonna be really embarassing the first time i try and dance with a guy because ive never done it before and i wont know what im doing! and im afraid i will do it wrong =(
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"Grinding" is basically dirty dancing. You will be grinding up against his private parts with yours. Just move your hips in circular like motions and dance kinda sexily.
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Q: my gf recently broke up with me and i really need someone to tell me some good ways to get my mind off of it. it really hert me cuz i really did love her and i just cant stop thinking about it plz help!!!!
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Well, it is going to hurt for a little while, but the main thing you can do is throw yourself into things, like sports or just hanging out with friends. Don't sit around & dwell. Another thing you can do & I know this may seem weird & not exactly "sound" advice, but start innocently flirting with other girls. It will make you feel better & you will eventually think about someone else. Good Luck!
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Q: ok i like this guy named tanner.we have gone out before and for some retated reason we broke up.he likes this other girl named kayli but everyone says he still has a little crush on me.:) well my freind molli is going to see who he likes and if he says me she is going to ask him out for me.me and tanner are real good friends and im afraid that if i ask him out and he says no that we wont be freinds anymore.and me and kayli are good friends to and she likes tanner also and i dont want to make her mad if he says yes.i did help before 7:00am.thanxxx!!!
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Well, this is a tough one. After mulling it over for a while, it kinda sounds like it's more drama than it's worth if you DO go out with him. For one thing, you might lose him as a friend or if he does accept, you might lose your other friend because she will be upset. It's like choosing between bad & worse. Maybe if anything, you can just wait a while & see what happens. If it was meant to be, it will be. No need to rush into things, right? I hope I helped & good luck to ya.
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Q: how do you know if you have had your "cherry popped".
Because I've heard you can pop it sometimes playing sports, and i play soccer and volleyball and then my bf has fingered me before...but i just dont know...is there any way to tell?
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For one thing, it cannot be "popped" unless something big enough is inserted. Second, you'll know right away because you will bleed and spot blood when it happens.
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Q: ok this is for girls i guess.
what is the right way to shave the vaginal area? becuase some people have said shave in the way the hair goes...so like down i guess? but then the area isnt smooth. so then if you shave the other way you can get cut and really bad razor burn? is there any way to get it smooth with out any or little razor burn?
and is it ok to use nair for down there?
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OK, well I think the way I do it is pretty cool. First off, if it's "really bad" (if ya know what I mean), you'll want to start off with an electric razor, just to get the bulk of it. Then, you get this stuff called, Veet. It is a hair removal cream that comes with a bladeless razor! Just read the directions. It makes it very smooth. Just remember to follow up with a non scented lotion, like, Aveeno. Good Luck!
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Q: I work with these two girls. Laura and michelle. Laura has been working there for 5 years & works full time. michelle has been there for 2 months & work part time. A month ago laura asked if she can get promotoed to shift supervisor & the store manager said you would have to drop the full time and go to part time. So she said no way. The store manager Then asked michelle if she would like to be Shift supervisor & she took the promotion.
Laura went to another manager and asked why she would have to go to part time and the manager said thats not true.
I was talking to michelle and asked why didnt Laura get the promotion since she has been here longer & she told me that the store manager said shes to slow and doesnt get the job done on time and doesnt believe she has what it takes to be a shift supervisor.
I'm the only one that knows why laura didnt get the promotion. And i feel really guilty because im keeping it from her. Question is should i tell her or just keep it from her?
thank you.
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Well, if she is really bugging about it, then, yes, do tell, don't lie. But, if she just thinks that she had to go part time & SHE refused it & it seems like it's water under the bridge, then I would just leave well enough alone. No point in hurting her any further by telling her she wasn't good enough for the job. Good Luck to ya!
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Q: Do you guys know any songs that a girl can sing thats under 3 minutes. im an alto and a second so i cant really sing high. thanks.
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Well, I can think of some, but, I am a country buff. So, what I thought of right away was some songs by Reba Macentyre, like, "Fancy." But, if you aren't into that kind of music maybe you could tell us the type you do listen to & that will help us help you. Good Luck!
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Q: heyy what's promiscuous mean?? and how do you spell it lol
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promiscuous. You spelled it just right, hon. It basically means someone sleeps around with a lot of different people.
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bio
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I am married and have 3 beautiful daughters. Their ages are 2, 6 & 11. I am not in any way saying I am an expert on life, but, I have been through a lot of different things, from...mental health issues, alcoholism to having a husband in Iraq. So, feel free to ask me anything you need help with & I will try to answer it the best I can.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Latrobe, Pa Occupation: Counter Person Age: 30 AIM: Member Since: April 4, 2006 Answers: 46 Last Update: January 31, 2008 Visitors: 6470
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