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i miss him,


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 10:35 pm

i met a boy from another town in december. weve talked on the phone and on facebook since, but now we havn't communicated for two whole weeks now. it would be so akward to call him, but hte thing is, i really miss him. i think about him all the time. i even have dreams with him in them somtimes. part of me wants to tell him i miss him and am always thinking about him, and the other half of me thinks that might freak him out. but he could be feeling the same way but not want to admit it. what should i do??

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I need a boyfriend


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 10:32 pm

Alright, about to spend Valentine's day alone
and i want a boyfriend
any ideas of personalities or looks i should look for
How do you tell if a guy likes but, is to shy to ask you out
What's a good way to flirt
Also, I have a Stalker
How do i let him down without being very rude


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Do you think he likes me or is just being friendly?


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 10:30 pm


I won't bore you with the whole story. Instead, I'll tell you that:

*We went out before. But it wasn't "officially" a date. We went out for coffee, and the next week went out for dinner and a movie. He paid for everything.*

*He works ALL the time (till the wee hours of the morning.) So during the week our main form of communication is texting. However, he doesn't usually initiate the text conversations.

* I don't see him more than once or twice every two weeks because he's so busy.*

*When we do go out, there is lots of good chemistry, eye contact and body language. However, this has been going on for at least a month and he hasn't made a move.*

*He ...

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v-day present for my boyfriend ahh!


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 10:22 pm

My boyfriend is taking me somewhere romantic tomorrow and i have no idea where it is. But anyway i obviously wanna get him something and since i cant take him anywhere since hes doing all that i was thinking i could buy him the scrubs season 4 dvd because he wants it really bad, and burn him a cd and make him a card. but im not sure if thats good enough considering hes taking me somewhere amazing and paying for my dinner and stuff! does my present sound good? does anyone have any other creative ideas?

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possible to care for two guys at the same time


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 8:49 pm

I have this boyfriend whom ive been with for 6months and I really love him the problem is that I also have feelings for this kid that I have liked a really lot since middle school. We were always very closed and liked each other we just never went out. I always thought he would be my first sexual experience. He is telling me know that he wished we were going out and that he made a big mistake by not asking me out. He says he cares alot about me. I don’t know what to do my boyfriend and I have started talking about having sex (im still a virgin). The problem is I don’t know if I should have sex with him if I still have feelings for this other guy. I don’t want to hurt him and break up with him because im not sure what will happen with this other guy. Please help

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Getting over a guy that's out of my league


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 7:46 pm

In middle school, I ended up in a class with this guy. He'd do the typical playground stuff and it turned out that he had "liked" me but I rejected him because he used to bully me. So he told me he hated me.
Through high school, we never talked but we had this weird staring thing and I started this major crush on him. We didn't run in the same groups, I was normal and he was popular. In grade 12, we started talking a little. After grad, we didn't see each other anymore but we ran into each other at a party and we talked.
Since puberty, I've liked him, as sad as it sounds. I constantly think about him and measure all guys up to him. I've tried to get over him before but I can't. I think it's more about the fact that I...

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i don't know


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 6:57 pm

there's this guy who asked me out today after school. he's okay but i don't want to get into a relationship right now. i don't know if this is the guy i've been waiting for. how will i know what to say... Valentine's day is coming up and i don't want him to be heartbroken. what should i do???


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yes im 15 and no i dont know how to makeout


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 6:20 pm

soo im starting to get really close to this guy. were not going out yet, but i kinda feel like it'll happen soon...ya know? so i've never made out with a guy before. how exactly does it work..especially sicne i have a short tongue and all. i want to be good for my first time. and im pretty sure he thinks im experienced and have made out. but i havent. im not comfortable with telling him i havent. please dont say just go with the flow. i know that already. but what exactly are you suppose to do, or whats suppose to happen?

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makeout/guy (I NEED ADVICE ASAP BEFORE V-DAY)


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 6:13 pm

okay so theres this guy that ive liked since the beginnig of school. and tomorrow on valentines day, hes asking me out!

i like him so much, and hes really cute. the only thing stopping me from saying yes, is making out. now when i see him around school, like inbetween classes and stuff, id just peck kiss him. and im fine with that. (ive peck kissed before) but like before&after school when i see him, usually thats when you makeout. now the weird thing is ive madeout once before, in a dark closet so no one saw. now that kiss i thought went well, but im so self consious, so i dont want to kiss someone and then they say im a bad kisser. but my main problem is- i dont want to have to kiss him at school because then everyone ...

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fine boy!


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 6:12 pm

alright so i sorta kinda maybe like this boy and idk if i want to cause i always end up for going byos i dont know to well..and get my self hurt..
but the bright part is he might also like me too..and i just wanna hang out with him more..

but there is anthor prob..so there is this guy "bob" ( thats what we will call him ) and we've been having this thing for a while now..about 2 months or so but we go to differnt school and he lives abnout 15 mins away..and whenever we try hanging out he cancles at the last min or just can't ..and i tried telling him about this and he goes well its not like your not busy..but thats not true cuase im ALWAYS inviting him to places and making sure hes on the kids i have come.....

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best friend = love trouble


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 6:01 pm

13/F


me and my friend are both head over heels for this guy
and he broke up with her for me. we both feel terrible i really like him
so today he asked me to be his valentine

ladies... if you know what i mean ( whenever you talk to someone you fall in love with them)

so she thinks she is being really selfish because she cant get over him and she doesn't want me to get mad at her
i understand how she would feel horrible. but i also think that she needs to move on

i really like this kid and she loves him.
what should we do???
he is in love with me... but she cant move on

from,
tornintopieces


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this boyy


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 5:37 pm

ahhhhh so I'm verrryy good friends with this boy right (15/f hes 16). I have a suspicion that he likes mee. The thing is, he has a girlfriend. But this isn't like the other questions, because I DON't like himm! Just as a friend, and so I think he's breaking up with her for me, because that's what one of his friends said. I don't want that because I just wanna stay friends with him, nothing more then that, like im not attracted to him! So what should I do, because I really don't want him breaking up with her, and I especially don't want him hitting on me if they do berak up
Also, we chill a lot. Like outside of school. So he might not be interested in dating me, so I'm pretty sure he won't ask me out, but he could try to hook up with ...

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ugh valentines day.


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 5:33 pm

yeah, so valentines day is tomorrow.
and me and my boyfriend have been going out for a week, and day.

i don't think he's getting me anything.
so i guess i'm not getting him anything either.
but its fine, i guess because we haven't been together long, at all.

so what can i do? to make valentines day cute for us? =/


urgent <3

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love lines


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 4:43 pm

ok so i have a boyfriend.. lol, and he's always calling me beautiful, and pretty, and gorgeous etc. but what can you call a guy other than hott and sexy??? im stuck, can anyone help??

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nervous


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 4:38 pm

Everytime me and my crush talk, I always end up saying stupid things..

He was talking about being a lefthanded pitcher and his height and how thats an advantage to him playing baseball.

And I didn't hear the last part, and I said 'Oh, so that helps you win, huh?'. I didn't mean to say win, but I often find myself saying things that I don't mean.

How can I stop being so nervous around him when I talk to him?

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VERY kinky boyfriend.


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 4:08 pm

16/f. 15/m. my first boyfriend's getting to be REALLY kinky...and it's okay, to some extent. but i've just had enough.
i have a kind of ..a fear of male genitalia..its not a fear..more like a disgust [because of events that have happened previously..to me ..when i was young] and..my bf (lets call him A)
well, A showed me his penis. and i wasn't exactly turned on or anything. we're much too young. and whenever i reject looking at it, or touching it or anything, he gets PISSED at me. and he goes...so you have peniphobia now? WTF?
he ALWAYS finds something wrong with the way i act-how i'm disgusted by certain crude..sexual acts - IN PUBLIC.. WHO touches themselves in public? Please tell me..? Am I insane or -what..?
...

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How can I focus?


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 2:31 pm

I told my best friend that I am bi sexual and has feelings for her she said she doesn’t feel the same way. I try my best to get over her but its different cult. When class started in my j.r. college I thought to myself this is a good time to get my head straight and be busy to not think of her. But she asks me what time I have my one hour English class and I said at 3 to 430. She has a car and I don’t so she was being kind of enough to take me. (she has class at 530) But I saw her at school waiting for me when I get off the city bus. We talk and hang out and have fun before I go in to class. (I arrive an hour early for class because of the bus schedule.) I see her every Monday and Wednesday, I ask her why she is here early and she said...

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a horrible thing to do near valentines day


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 10:34 am

2 years ago i went out with this guy for 5months and after 5months i lost the "beginning relationship spark" but i thought i didn't like him anymore but i knew i still loved him. anyway i didn't know what i was feeling and i broke up with him. he was my first love and i was his. not too long after we broke up he got a new girlfriend and has been with her ever since but now two years later i miss him ALOT. last night i was crying hysterically. like screaming crying because i missed him so much and i want him back. i havent cried over a guy...ever! just when we broke up. we started going out on the day before valentines day (today) so im not sure if valentines day is bringing these emotions but last valentines day i was fine without...

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love triangle :[


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 1:51 am

so my best guy friend and i are really close
and we even hooked up for fun
then i started to like him
but i didnt tell him
so he started liking this other girl
i ended up telling him that i like him
but now him and the girl are going out
i still like him
and they've been together for a month
i've tried getting over him but its so hard
and i cant forget about him because he is my best friend
and we talk alot
i was thinking that i could wait for the relationship to end
but it hurts when he talks about her
i usually help him with his problems
so he tells me whats going on
what do i do? :/
*confused&&inlove*
[15/f]

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love songs


Posted Tuesday February 12 2008, 11:19 pm

Alright here is the deal i need a song that me and my boyfriend can call ours. But i dont want it to be just another frilly love song that has really nothing to do but love. I want a song that has to do kinda with our life and our love. See iv lived a kinda bad life and iv been through hell and back and when he met me i was down in the dirt lower than you can get, and he picked me up and hes my night in shining armor. I want our song to have something to do with life being hard and thinking of the worst and then someone coming to save you. But if anyone can give me any good love songs that will be very well appreciated. Thanks

Short N Punky

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