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How can I focus?


Question Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 2:31 pm

I told my best friend that I am bi sexual and has feelings for her she said she doesn’t feel the same way. I try my best to get over her but its different cult. When class started in my j.r. college I thought to myself this is a good time to get my head straight and be busy to not think of her. But she asks me what time I have my one hour English class and I said at 3 to 430. She has a car and I don’t so she was being kind of enough to take me. (she has class at 530) But I saw her at school waiting for me when I get off the city bus. We talk and hang out and have fun before I go in to class. (I arrive an hour early for class because of the bus schedule.) I see her every Monday and Wednesday, I ask her why she is here early and she said “so I can spend time with you.” when I go in to class I can’t focus I think of her and wonder what to talk about after my class. I try to pay attention but she’s distracting me. So what should I do? I want to get over her and see her as a friend because I don’t want to still like someone who doesn’t feel the same way.


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cheerxleader14 answered Wednesday February 13 2008, 8:53 pm:
i know how hard it is..i cant stop thinking about my friend thats a guy. but i guess we all just have to get over it. if they dont like us back theres nothing we can do! i hope you find someone who makes you just as happy =]. and good luck!

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MistressSlipknot answered Wednesday February 13 2008, 7:25 pm:
its ok. this happens alot. i once felt the same way about this guy named Allan. he was constantly on my mind, and there was little i could do to stop myself. i know its difficult, but im not sure how to answer you question, because these things take time, for me it took me two years, but not everyone is the same. its not your fault for liking/loving someone that doesnt like you the same way back. you cant help who you fall for. i know i didnt really answer your question, but i hoped i helped even if it was a little bit. good luck
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