Question Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 8:49 pm
I have this boyfriend whom ive been with for 6months and I really love him the problem is that I also have feelings for this kid that I have liked a really lot since middle school. We were always very closed and liked each other we just never went out. I always thought he would be my first sexual experience. He is telling me know that he wished we were going out and that he made a big mistake by not asking me out. He says he cares alot about me. I don’t know what to do my boyfriend and I have started talking about having sex (im still a virgin). The problem is I don’t know if I should have sex with him if I still have feelings for this other guy. I don’t want to hurt him and break up with him because im not sure what will happen with this other guy. Please help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? randomconfusionx answered Thursday February 14 2008, 7:56 am: mmkay.
um.
1st of all.
DON'T CHEAT ON HIM!! trust me
you don't know how much it hurts guys when you cheat on them. but i think. you should stay with the guy you're going out with now. you've been through more. and like. you don't know if this other guy really cares.
i mean.
you've been with this guy for a while. i think you should stay with him. don't hurt him. as for the other guy, keep him just in case.
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MistressSlipknot answered Thursday February 14 2008, 3:28 am: you are absolutely right. you should not have sex with him if you still have feelings. basically its not fair to him if you were to do that and he spent 6 months on a relasionship with you. you got to tell him in one way or another. and also, make sure on who you have sex with because im still living my mistake each and every day. i actually had sex with some inconsiderate jerk-off who loved to lie to me to make me sad. and i finally found someone who loves me, and the person i want to spend the rest of my life with... i wished it was him that i lost my virginity to. so, im not trying to be your mom, im just trying to help. hopefully i helped.
Good Luck
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