Question Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 6:20 pm
soo im starting to get really close to this guy. were not going out yet, but i kinda feel like it'll happen soon...ya know? so i've never made out with a guy before. how exactly does it work..especially sicne i have a short tongue and all. i want to be good for my first time. and im pretty sure he thinks im experienced and have made out. but i havent. im not comfortable with telling him i havent. please dont say just go with the flow. i know that already. but what exactly are you suppose to do, or whats suppose to happen?
just go in like a regular kiss right
-not to fast
you could use the 90/10 rule
(i usually grip onto the back of the neck or play with their fingers while kissing) focus on the bottom lip
make sure not to bit him though.
make sure to kinda have your mouth open so if he wants tounge action he can go right ahead.
but unless he sticks his tounge out first
basically ur just open mouth kissing.
girls shouldn't start the tounge-ish part
thats the guys job.
.............
oh.kay
what to do with your tounge.
take it slow with your tounge
sorta slowly move your tounge up & down his tounge
or around it doesnt matter (i guesss)
eh.. i think thats it
(this is awkward explaining sorry)
i highly doubt that helped any but I TRYED!
once again i apologize for my CRAPPY explaning ability.
yEEyEEbREbRE answered Thursday February 14 2008, 12:30 am: Hoooooney!!
Yes she's right! Unfortunately, it is natural and no one can really tell you how! Don't even worry about being a bad kisser because u have to be really, really bad in order to be bad like....
-Makin it WET. Eww! Like juicy! GROSS! Hahaha....
-Stuffing your tongue down the throat! And believe me, its basically impossible for you to do that!
You have nothing to worry about since you both are becoming close! You'll feel comfortable! At least he's not the most popular/sexiest guy in the world. That's when you can worry especially if youre inexperienced!
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