Question Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 6:13 pm
okay so theres this guy that ive liked since the beginnig of school. and tomorrow on valentines day, hes asking me out!
i like him so much, and hes really cute. the only thing stopping me from saying yes, is making out. now when i see him around school, like inbetween classes and stuff, id just peck kiss him. and im fine with that. (ive peck kissed before) but like before&after school when i see him, usually thats when you makeout. now the weird thing is ive madeout once before, in a dark closet so no one saw. now that kiss i thought went well, but im so self consious, so i dont want to kiss someone and then they say im a bad kisser. but my main problem is- i dont want to have to kiss him at school because then everyone will watch, and im afraid ill look bad making out. i know this sounds really stupid, but its just something im not confident doing because i havent done it alot before. im also still not even completely sure of how to makeout! and please dont say "tell him you dont want to do it at school yet, if he doesnt understand hes not worth your time" because i have to do it at school, eventually, when we go out.
SO PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE (AND INCLUDE YOUR ADVICE ON HOW TO MAKEOUT)
crazyme6 answered Wednesday February 13 2008, 10:39 pm: honestly, dont rush it! he shouldnt be in a hurry to makeout, and making out at school is NOT the best place. wait until the PERFECT moment when you feel confident and you guys are alone, and just gently open up your mouth and if his is opening too, slide your tongue in and kinda paint the tip of his tongue with yours. not too much. just gently. then kiss again. but trust me, after the 1st time its super easy! if he tries to do it at school just kiss him back and dont do it yet if you arent ready. dont worry about what people think by the way..its noen of their business! and one more thing: do not let that stop you from going out with him if you truly like him!! everything will fall into place. i went through the same thing but it turned out working out perfectly. confidence is key! i hope it goes well and dont be afraid to say yes. [ crazyme6's advice column | Ask crazyme6 A Question ]
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