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Getting over a guy that's out of my league
In middle school, I ended up in a class with this guy. He'd do the typical playground stuff and it turned out that he had "liked" me but I rejected him because he used to bully me. So he told me he hated me.
Through high school, we never talked but we had this weird staring thing and I started this major crush on him. We didn't run in the same groups, I was normal and he was popular. In grade 12, we started talking a little. After grad, we didn't see each other anymore but we ran into each other at a party and we talked.
Since puberty, I've liked him, as sad as it sounds. I constantly think about him and measure all guys up to him. I've tried to get over him before but I can't. I think it's more about the fact that I'm -used- to him in my mind. Alot of the aspects of myself are existant cause of him.
I've tried other men but there's this block, it just doesn't work and I can't stop comparing people to him and no one measures up.
My sister added him on my facebook and he ignored it which was a given. I'm sad anyway and I want to get over him so badly. What do I do?
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wow sounds like you got it bad girl... hmm well honestly there is no way to just make yourself magically "get over" him... so i guess just try not to think about him...focus on other stuff like hanging out with friends, work, i dont know... maybe even finding another guy! but if you find another guy and you still find yourself comparing him to this one guy of yours then its probably best to end things with that guy (hope that wasnt too confusing) but sooner of later there will be a guy that comes along and you're gonna know its right with him and you're gonna be like i dont know why i even liked him in the first place...
now if that doesnt sound like a possibility then maybe what you need to do is write him a message on facebook (because you can send people private messages even if they are not your friend on facebook) and explain to him how you feel...i know that might sound scary or whatever but at the same time exciting to see if he responds...just make it very clear that you need him to reply to you...and hey maybe things will work out for the best... or maybe he'll reject you...and once he has rejected you, and you read those words...then maybe it will be easier for you to move on...maybe you just need to see the words that there will never be anything there between you two..and yeah itll hurt but in the end itll probably help you move on
either way, things are going to be okay in the end! :)
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im in the same situation as you its hard to get over someone you cant get off your mind. i know everyone will say move on blah blah but its like YOU CANT. i know exactly how you feel i cnt let go of this guy either. but what im doing is looking for another guy. & maybe ill fall harder for this guy and maybe hell like me back. you should try this to.
hope i helped somehow haha
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