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highschool loser
Posted Saturday February 16 2008, 1:15 am
14/f
i'm going into high school soon and i've never kissed or dated a guy. I've only had one guy ask me out but it was over IM and I turned him down.
Do you think guys won't like me if they know i don't know how to kiss, or i've never dated or anything. Or will they think it's cute and not care and go along with it and date/kiss me?
or will they like take advantege of me??
I'm pretty shy, but I have a lot of friends, and some guy friends but not a lot.
help
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overprotective mom.
Posted Saturday February 16 2008, 12:01 am
so. i really like this boy and i know he likes me too but ill be 15 tomorrow and he'll be 18 this tuesday. we really like eachother but my mom says that hes too old for me.
i think love has no specific age.
how do i convince her that i really like this boy and tell her nicely that she cant standin the way of my love life?
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is 4 years too much?
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 10:41 pm
okay way long story short, i met this senior guy and he thought i was a sophomore, when i am only a freshman, but we didt talk about age, well we really ddint talk alot.we started off as just two peopple at the same parties, then over like a 2 week period of time we became very close friends, then we became VERY close friends, and i didnt know or care how old her was, i knew he went to my high school and i knew important stuf, but we still hung out and hooked up.
recently the age thing came up and we figured out that there is a four year age difference... now i know in some states its illegal for anyone over 18 to have intamite realtions with anyone under 16, but we havent had sex and he said hed still date me, even though i ...
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love. kinda weird so only look if you really know what your
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 10:34 pm
well i'm not gonna lie...i'm a horny little thing. i mean not just some little thing sets me off but when i get horny nothing can stop me. and lately i've developed different feelings. i wonna have sex.
all my friends have had sex, fingured, gave head, etc etc. i'm a good girl and i'm tired of it. it sucks. i wonna do it, but i'm scared.
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my boyfriend makes me feel bad
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 9:08 pm
we've been going out for about 2 months now, and he says he 'loves me'..we're both 16 and in the same grade..i'm the girl. lol
my first - i'm his like 7th gf lol
well, i'm easily manipulated. and i can't help it. i might get the courage to break up with someone and then immediately change my mind..because i'm too nice. and sensitive. my boyfriend has too much control on my feelings. he flirts with my friends - who are all girls...and then comes to me telling me he loves me. i don't mention the whole flirting thing because he denies it anyway. and this upsets me. i feel like he is flirting behind my back and so are my friends - and they're all in it together. as if they don't care. as much as i know he's a jerk - i sti...
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this kid i like
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 8:47 pm
ok so theres this kid and i think hes so nice but hes kinda shy and wants you to make the first move but i really like him and dont want to make the first move what do i do?
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the cute boy
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 7:38 pm
okay so theres this guy i met at a party a while back. well we started talking, and hes REALLY cute. on sunday, i was kinda drunk, and i invited him to a kickback and he came. and he was really sweet to me. he carried me around and stuff like that. and we hooked up. but he was like ohh i cant mess with you when youre drunk. so yeah. then yesterday, on valentines day, we went to see a movie together. after the movie, we went to the beach and just chilled. and he said really cute things to me and we just talked. like he said how that moment was so great and he said that if he died there, hed be happy. and it was really cute. and then it was kinda late, but he asked me to be his valentine and i said yes. haha. um. but yeah so we talked a littl...
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i cant get over my boyfriend
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 7:33 pm
I just broke up with my boyfriend last week, and I just cant live life without him. This morning I saw him kissing my bffl, should talk to him about getting back 2gether?
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going to boyfriend's house tomorrow--what to say?
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 7:30 pm
So I'm going over to my boyfriend's house tomorrow to hang out. Thing is, I've only met his mom like twice and I'm still kind of nervous (we didn't really talk, but she and my mom did). I don't know why, and neither does she (she's asked him why she makes me nervous, and said she likes me fine), and it's weird because I like her fine too, I just don't know what to say.
So...how would you talk to your boyfriend's mom? Like...how do you act or what do you say? I know once I get to know her I'll be fine...but help?
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Too Young?
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 6:45 pm
Okay, I have two questions.
I just turned 14 on Valentine's Day. Happy Birthday to me, I know haha!
Anyway. My boyfriend just turned 16 on January 25.
Only a two year difference. That's not bad right?
Well how young is too young?
To go on a "date"?
My mother says it's a matter of responsibility and maturity.
Everyone I know goes out at 14.
Even if their parents drop and pick them upand such.
So is it okay for me?
And how can I prove I am responsible and old and mature enough to go on a "date" with T.J.? My stepmom has met him and he's a really nice, responsible, mature, and respectful young man.
He really is.
Ask my stepmom lol!
Any help is GREATLY appreciated!
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Posted Friday February 15 2008, 5:19 pm
How do you know if a guy is a player? You see my crush told me like 4 weeks ago that he had a girlfriend (came up in a casual conversation) and now he like looks me in the eye and he was touching his leg with mine today and he kept moving his torso toward me, and calling me blonde teasingly...but i asked what someone thought on this sight, and they said he sounds like a player, but i disagree, then i started thinking more and more (like i did throughout the day saying "what could he want with me? he is a senior and i am a freshman!) how could i tell??
PS REMEMBER!!! this is four weeks later!
and can you awnser my original question also, how do you know if a guy is a player?
thank you...
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I want to date this kid.
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 5:17 pm
Alright, I wANT to date this kid we call him tj.
The only thing is i dont know how do get to know him better.
The only time i see him is in my MATH class.
i think we would be a couple cuz,we're both shy and im not that good looking and seeing his exes he has low standards. Really low standards.
sry didnt mean to be mean.
Well any advice would help
p.s just rembered he has lunch with me
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my love life
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 5:05 pm
Ok, So theres this boy and like him alot and he is rely hard to read... and a bunch of girls like him and i don't know what to do because i rely like him and i don't know who he like and were rely good friends and so i don't know if that would be akward to like him or not!! HELP ME!
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players haters and flirts: how do you know?
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 5:04 pm
How do you know if a guy is a player? You see my crush told me like 4 weeks ago that he had a girlfriend (came up in a casual conversation) and now he like looks me in the eye and he was touching his leg with mine today and he kept moving his torso toward me, and calling me blonde teasingly...but i asked what someone thought on this sight, and they said he sounds like a player, but i disagree, then i started thinking more and more (like i did throughout the day saying "what could he want with me? he is a senior and i am a freshman!) how could i tell??
thank you...
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made the right decision or made a mistake
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 4:58 pm
"alison"=me, "jason"=guy who asked me out, "noah"=guy who i used to like and liked me back, "nicole"=girl who helped jason to ask me out. fake names!
say before Valentine's day, nicole asks me, "alison, would you like... (names guysin the class)" i say, "its depends on all of them. idk" she said, "what would happen if someone asked you, would you say yes?" i say "it depends" she bugs me all day asking me this question, then i say "yes! ok! to any of them, jeez" then i go to my class and she goes to her's. she's in the same class as jason. after school, jason come up to me and asks me to go out with him, and i just said for us to talk on ...
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virgin?
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 4:27 pm
15f.. my boyfriend is 16.
alright so ive been going out with this guy of like only a week and a half.. but im just curious if he's a virgin or not.. im not saying that im just going to jump on him.. im just like curious, and he doesnt seem like the kinda guy thats open about that kinda stuff.. and i dont want it to be totally werid if i ask him.. so is there a right time to ask that? like i dont know if he will be like freaked out and think im expecting to have sex with him right away.. so how should i ask him or when should i ask him? should i just come out and ask it randomly? ah i dont know.
oh and also im not a virgin and if he is... would that like turn him off? i dont know
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Kissing
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 4:15 pm
Hi, i was wondering, when you kiss someone is there supposed to be feeling?
I mean i kinda get a feeling in my stomach.and kinda get excited somewhere else.But i wanted to know if theres supposed to be a feeling with your lips or anything.
Also..is it possible for a girl to get wet just from kissing, not all to much like making out, just kissing alot.
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Posted Friday February 15 2008, 3:46 pm
okay this guy that i really like, told me a while back that he had a gf but i thought he was sending me mixed signals...well today in class he was saying what he liked in a girl and i was sitting right next to him...(it was the assignment to talk about relationships) and everytime i was supposed to talk, the first time he swung his leg to hit mine...then the other times he moved his torso toward me and smiled and said its your turn...and the fourth time he did it i moved towards him...also i was trying to tell this girl a joke but he kept moving back and forth to where i couldnt see her...and he like would look at me when i was talking and smile...and when he looked at me he looked at my eyes...his pupils looked dialated...and i dont know i...
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My Friend's (Nonexistent) Sadies Date
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 3:40 pm
Ok, to start off, this really DID happen to my friend - not to me, who's just pretending it happened to my friend!!! Haha :)
Everyone in the situation is 14 / a freshman.
My friend Danielle takes piano lessons, and a boy, Isaiah, has a lesson right after hers. She started to really think he was cool (about a year ago), but never really talked to him. (She's pretty shy/self conscious about things like that. Plus, there's barely any time for them to talk.) However, she started talking to him little by little at piano lessons, for the past few weeks.
So, we do indoor track, and so does Isaiah.
He seems to have a lot of friends, but he's very quiet seeming. She has lots of friends, to...
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he's not an open book...
Posted Friday February 15 2008, 2:14 am
okay so me and this guy have been fooling around off and on for like 3 years now, he used to fool around woth everyone but lately he hasn't been fooling around with as many girls, i guess he's trying to be more faithfull to his "girlfrind"(please don't paint me as a bad guy... he always says that they're broken up and they haven't gone out all year, but some of her friends say that they're going out...) anyway, whenever we do anything he ignores me the next day even though we're friends and then the next day it's completely different he acts like he only wants to be around me... i think he's just trying to play the field and he doesn't like me... can anyone give me any advice on wether i should keep this thing up or just give up on the jerk?
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