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is 4 years too much?
okay way long story short, i met this senior guy and he thought i was a sophomore, when i am only a freshman, but we didt talk about age, well we really ddint talk alot.we started off as just two peopple at the same parties, then over like a 2 week period of time we became very close friends, then we became VERY close friends, and i didnt know or care how old her was, i knew he went to my high school and i knew important stuf, but we still hung out and hooked up.
recently the age thing came up and we figured out that there is a four year age difference... now i know in some states its illegal for anyone over 18 to have intamite realtions with anyone under 16, but we havent had sex and he said hed still date me, even though i was 4 years younger than him.... should i stay with him until we can get more serious or should i tell him to wait, or should i just end it now, i dont want to end it cause i really really really like him....
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I don't think you should break up with them. He said he would stick by your side so you could do the same. If he could wait, then I think you should wait too. You really really really really like him so it will work. Four year difference is kinda a lot at this time but it won't matter in the future.
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4 years its okay according to me . it makes you grow up , also it doesnt mean you have to do something sexual with him. but you should think about it and talk to him about this , cause its obvios that older guys have older interests than just holding hands, if he really understands and care about you this wont be a huge deal :) i think its okay 4 years and about the illegal thing..its just like its gonna be illegal if you get pregnant and sew him or somethign that involves a demand or anything like that , but just ot be in a relationship its okay whiloe he doesnt harm you physically or in any kind :) if your not ready for sex tell ihm, that you want a relationship wiht him but your not into the sex issue, if he can deal wiht that then continue together if he puts pressure on you about that then just end it :) good luck
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i think that four years is perfectly fine...as long as it isnt a teacher student type thing--yuck!ha ha but i think you two should stay together if it is what both of you want...just wait for the serious stuff...you guys are still young, you got plenty of time...
-hayley
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