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highschool loser
14/f
i'm going into high school soon and i've never kissed or dated a guy. I've only had one guy ask me out but it was over IM and I turned him down.
Do you think guys won't like me if they know i don't know how to kiss, or i've never dated or anything. Or will they think it's cute and not care and go along with it and date/kiss me?
or will they like take advantege of me??
I'm pretty shy, but I have a lot of friends, and some guy friends but not a lot.
help
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its okay haha. you are only 14 years old hun. im 16 and i still havnt had my first kiss yet. and ive had 3 boyfriends (one of who has already had sex before). i dont think that guys will takee advantage of you if you make sure to give them the right idea of what you are truly looking for and what you expect from them. and especially at age 14, you dont need to worry about having your first kiss yet. when i was younger i would have thought i would have had my first kiss by now (part of me still wonders why haha) but most of the girls in my grade have actually never had theirs yet either. just dont worry about it, it may seem like everyone else has but they really havnt...it will come when it is meant to...
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Theres nothing wrong with that! I'm 17 and i just got my first kiss a few weeks ago. My boyfriend actually liked that he was my first kiss, cuz it was him and not some other guy haha.
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Don't worry theres nothingg wrong with thatt! Guys will seriously not care, and they'll be indifferent to it. Like they won't wanna kiss you more, or less. Maybe some people might like that you've never kissed and they'll "wanna take your innocence" or something haha, but I doubt anybody wouldn't wanna do stuff with you because you've never done anything.
And I don't see a reason for them to take advantage of youu. Just make sure that you don't let them, otherwise they could always try. But the fact that you're inexperinced won't make them take advantage of you!
So have funn high schools a partyy ;)
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hey. i'm 16/f and i've never been in a relationship either.
if you find a decent, respectable guy, he's not going to care what you've done in the past. in fact, he will like you more because you're not a skank. and if you meet a guy who thinks that your purity is a turn-off, he is not worth your time. very simply put.
you have plenty of time to do those things because frankly, most high school boys (and girls, for that matter) are idiots. you'll find that out pretty quick if you haven't already.
it's not a big deal that you haven't really dated anybody because i'm going to assume that your friends don't drive yet since you're 14. and it doesn't really count as a date if your parents drop you off, i don't think.
don't rush to get into a relationship, and don't fall for the first guy to look your way. my best friend is like that... she feels the need to always have a boyfriend. and that's why people think she's a skank.
i hope i helped, and good luck :)
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I really don't think guys give a lot of
thought to wondering if a girl is a bad
kisser or if they haven't dated a lot of
other guys before they ask her out.
If they hear you HAVE dated a lot of other
guys they may actually feel they aren't
going to live up to what you might expect.
Other girls get around so much they may
not want to get involved at all.
I think you have an advantage if anything.
So don't worry about it. Like Cux said, a
lot of guys will think it is a turn on to
be the first to kiss you!
There are guys in this world who take
advantage of girls. Its sad but
those guys are out there. I don't think
it matters if you have dated a lot or not.
Girls just have to be smart and not allow
a guy to rush them into doing things they
aren't ready to do yet.
A lot of girls will do things for fear
of losing a guy they are dating. If he
can't wait for you to be ready for more
than kissing, he isn't worth your time.
Always remember that.
I know all these things are something
you are anxious to do. But you have
plenty of time to do them. Until a
guy can drive and take you places I
wouldn't really call it "dating" anyway.
Its just hallway romance. :) So don't
worry. You are fine and will have a
special guy soon.
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Hey, don't worry about it. People won't treat you differently. Guys will like you; Guys LOVE innocent girls. But not to use; there are, believe it or not, decent guys out there. Half of the people you'll meet have never been kissed/dated a guy. Me - I got my first boyfriend at 16 and my first kiss at 16 as well. You just have to let it come - and it will. Don't pay too much attention to it and don't try too hard. Relax, life is beautiful. Don't stress out over this ;]
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Oh dear. I say that in a good way- not a bad one ;].
I think it is pretty awesome that you haven't dated or kissed a guy before ;]
If any guy won't like you for that- wow- they aren't worth it. Honestly- I think, like me, most guys will think it's a big turn on ;]. They probably will think it's cute- especially if it's a decent guy.
I don't see any reason why any guy would take advantage of you.. Hmm..
I like shy girls, to be honest ;] So you're completely fine =].
--Jack
(16/m)
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