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i cant get over my boyfriend
I just broke up with my boyfriend last week, and I just cant live life without him. This morning I saw him kissing my bffl, should talk to him about getting back 2gether?
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Its time for a story: I dated a boy for seven months, he was my first love and we spent every single day together. We broke up when I found out some of his dirty secrets.
For a week ... I hated him, I did nothing but talk nasty about him to anyone that would listen.
The next week, I wanted him back more then anything. I cried all night, screamed, yelled, and bawled just wishing I could take back what I did.
For weeks this nasty cycle went on. I resulted to drinking, smoking, and pointless hook ups to get him off my mind; it didn't work.
My ex and I hooked up a few times, sometimes he'd want me back when I didn't want him .. then vice versa. This has been going on for six months now.
Then one day I woke up, I started focusing on my volleyball and academic careers. I reacquainted with old friends and made new ones. I started writing again and spent time with my family. I even started flirting with new boys. I wrote myself a list of things I had accomplished since I dumped him and reasons why I would never date him again. Its helped alot, I'm over him now and I've moved on with my life. Its taken over half a year and it was the hardest thing I've ever had to do. Thats perfectly okay. Find a close friend to talk to or talk to me if you ever need it.
You will get through this and its okay to miss him. Oh, and about your 'bffl' kissing him? I'd talk to her about that, its not very best friend like if you catch my drift.
Good luck with your life and remember you are who you are before and after he ever came into your life.
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Hey Honey,
Okay, you must've broken up with him for a reason. Maybe, you were just tired of him and needed a break. But, I would just talk to him about it. Tell him you still love him and cant live life with out him. He might still be upset, so maybe give it a week. Well, I hope everything goes good!
Good Luck
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well maybe you should stop and ask yourself what was the reason why you broke up with him.. you shouldnt go back out with him just because your jealous that he kissed someone else, if thats the reason it wouldn't be fair to him, or yourself, but if you cant "life life without him" why would you brake up with him? if you really like him that much then i say go for it and see what he thinks about getting back together.
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