okay so theres this guy i met at a party a while back. well we started talking, and hes REALLY cute. on sunday, i was kinda drunk, and i invited him to a kickback and he came. and he was really sweet to me. he carried me around and stuff like that. and we hooked up. but he was like ohh i cant mess with you when youre drunk. so yeah. then yesterday, on valentines day, we went to see a movie together. after the movie, we went to the beach and just chilled. and he said really cute things to me and we just talked. like he said how that moment was so great and he said that if he died there, hed be happy. and it was really cute. and then it was kinda late, but he asked me to be his valentine and i said yes. haha. um. but yeah so we talked a little and made out a little. andd he wanted something more but i stopped it. he seems like the flirty player type, but then again i don't know him THAT well. but i think i'm really starting to REALLY like him, and i was just wondering likee how should i go about this? thankss in advance, sorry if its long.
Additional info, added Friday February 15 2008, 7:39 pm: oh and hes two years older than i am and we go to different schools, so it's not like i see him every day... Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? orphans answered Sunday February 17 2008, 9:25 am: Hey girlll this is like me a few months ago :)
But anyways, the first thing you need to do is
get to know him better. You said so yourself, you
don't really know him. So hang out with him a
little more and see if he does seem like a player.
Also,you should try to find out stuff about him.
Now donnnttt go doing this in a stalker way haha.
If you have a friend that goes to his school,
then ask about him, like how is he with girls.
Once you do that it'll be easier to decide what
you need to do about himm!
Good lucckkk :) [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
duudee_advicer answered Saturday February 16 2008, 1:17 pm: My opinion would be to try not to get too caught up with him so soon if you don't know what kind of person he is. Of course you could ask around and see if anyone knows anything about him; but then you have to take the risk of listening to other people's opinions on him. Keep getting to know him by asking about his life and meeting some of his friends. Find out for yourself what kind of person he is before you get screwed over. Remember, you don't have to go all or nothing; you can be friends for a while until you find out if he's the stable kind of guy that you can have a relationship with.
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ohitscassidy answered Saturday February 16 2008, 1:11 pm: hm, i was in a situations similar to this.. well if you like him, you should try to keep talking to him, and maybe find out or see how he reacts with other girls like if he flirts with them to or if its only you? [ ohitscassidy's advice column | Ask ohitscassidy A Question ]
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