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players haters and flirts: how do you know?
How do you know if a guy is a player? You see my crush told me like 4 weeks ago that he had a girlfriend (came up in a casual conversation) and now he like looks me in the eye and he was touching his leg with mine today and he kept moving his torso toward me, and calling me blonde teasingly...but i asked what someone thought on this sight, and they said he sounds like a player, but i disagree, then i started thinking more and more (like i did throughout the day saying "what could he want with me? he is a senior and i am a freshman!) how could i tell??
thank you...
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My best friend has dated so many players it's not even funny... so does he still have a girlfriend? If he does, and if he's flirting with you like that, beware... because if you do end up with him, there's no guarantee that he won't flirt with other girls. But if he's single now then ignore what I just said. Anyway, yeah, the senior-freshman thing does kind of make him seem like a player. I mean, I know seniors who have dated freshmen and it was perfectly fine, but most of the time when people that far apart in age get together it's a player thing. And I don't mean to tell you that he is a player because I don't know him. But if your friends are warning you about him... definitely take their warnings into consideration. My best friend wishes she had listened to me before getting into all those crappy relationships. If you really feel like he would be good for you, then by all means go for it... but just be careful, and don't get into anything you're not sure about. I hope I helped!
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You trust your gut, and you make mistakes.
There is no sure why to spot a 'player'. There are a few clues, and if he is willing to screw around on his current girlfriend, that is a big one! Also watch for a guy who is a hot and cold: really into you one day, and ignoring you the next.
In this particular case though, I have to agree with the person you asked: he does sound like a player. This is why: He told you had a girlfriend AND THEN seriously increased his flirting with you. This is the message someone sends with that behavior: "See, I'm taken, but I can make you want me, and I will make you want me."
Would you want a guy you were dating going out of his way to make other girls interested? Probably not. That is the behavior of a player.
Watch out for this guy. Anyone who tells you they are taken and then flirts like crazy with you, and basically asking you to help them cheat.
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