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he's not an open book...
okay so me and this guy have been fooling around off and on for like 3 years now, he used to fool around woth everyone but lately he hasn't been fooling around with as many girls, i guess he's trying to be more faithfull to his "girlfrind"(please don't paint me as a bad guy... he always says that they're broken up and they haven't gone out all year, but some of her friends say that they're going out...) anyway, whenever we do anything he ignores me the next day even though we're friends and then the next day it's completely different he acts like he only wants to be around me... i think he's just trying to play the field and he doesn't like me... can anyone give me any advice on wether i should keep this thing up or just give up on the jerk?
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If you are looking for a relationship, give up.
He has basically told you he isn't interested, or capable of anything serious. He doesn't take you, or his maybe-current-girlfriend, very seriously at all.
A guy who is really into you one day, and doesn't give a shit the next, will never be good boyfriend material. If you are enjoying you casual flings with him, go ahead and keep it up. If you are looking for more, give up now. He doesn't have any more to offer.
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Well if you love him and really care then keep things up. But if you are seening a new side of you that you don't like very much and its changeing you then just wash your hands of the relationship. But this is only a question you can answer because it's the matters of the heart and only you can ask your heart that question.
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I'd say that it's pretty easy for a guy to pretend he cares and lie. You can't just go by what he says. If he pretends that you don't exist the next day, why bother? There are plenty of guys out there that aren't with as many girls as possible. Besides, do you honestly think he'll change and just be there for you if you went out? What are the odds that he'll just treat you like he treats his current girlfriend? I would move on.
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