1.last year was my first year at the middle skool i go to. my 2 best friends(they are in 8th i was in 6th) went with me to the first dance of the year.we do this thing where we look around for ramdom hot guys and whoever is picke dfor us we "have to" like. well they picked out this guy in my homeroom and almost all of my classes.so for the rest of the night i pretended to like him. then about halfway through the year i started to accually like him. we had become really good friends and he was always flirting with me so i thought he liked me. So at the end of the year i told him that i liked him and he was like...i dont really like you but we are REALLY good friends.for the rest of the summer i wad depressed and i just recently gto over him.(i think)so we are in the same science class and yesterday we were talking and it seemed like he liked me. im so confused. help me understand him please!
Teza answered Friday February 15 2008, 11:41 am: I can't say if he likes you again or not but don't jump to conclusions right away and think that he might like you. Before, he told you that he likes you as a friend and that you guys were close but if you guys haven't really talked much since then, who knows if he might have feelings for you. When you guys are talking, try to see if he gives you any signals but don't assume anything right away. See how he continues to talk to you and sooner you'll find out if he's into you or not. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
triquetra answered Friday February 15 2008, 11:37 am: Some guys get confused by their own feelings towards girls. He at the moment would just like the two of you to be friends.
He only acts like he likes you because he wants the two of you to remain friends and that would mean to send out the signals that he likes you, but in a different way.
If somebody likes somebody else but would only like to be friends with them, showing them that they like them helps, but some people look at the signals in a different way and think that they want to have a realtionship with them. This seems to be the case here.
Just take it slow for a while and if his behaviour doesn't change, then he only wants to be friends with you.
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