ok so theres this kid and i think hes so nice but hes kinda shy and wants you to make the first move but i really like him and dont want to make the first move what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LOL_x0x answered Saturday February 16 2008, 3:39 pm: Well, the best advice I can give, is to just talk to him. Get to know him, and start hanging out with him so he gets to know you. Hopefully, after a little while, things will progress and he'll strat to view you as more than a friend. But start off as friends. Things work better that way, rather than rushing into a relationship.
So become friends with him, then drop hints that you like him. AKA: smiling a lot, giggling at his jokes, playing with his hair, holding his hand etc.
Good Luck =]
orphans answered Saturday February 16 2008, 3:06 pm: Well, one of you is bound to make the first move haha, so be patient and make him feel more comfortable around you. Talk to him more, let him open up to you and then he will feel like he can tell you anything. He'll make the first move eventually, show him that you are an easy going person, yuh know? Make him feel at homee :] hang out with him a lot too.
Good luckk
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xxxRadioGagaxxx answered Saturday February 16 2008, 3:04 pm: You don't have to necessarily make the "first move". Define first move...If it's saying that you like him, then it's not that hard. Show it by flirting with him. Nudge him. Smile at him, flip your hair. Talk to him; talking is key. Strike up conversations. Get comfortable with him and I promise you he might actually end up making the first move. If the both of you are unexperienced at this...it might STILL come spontaneously. Or, if you're a daredevil...you can write him a note saying you like him. Or even tell him online.
Make him your friend first though. It'll work out better that way.
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