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overprotective mom.
so. i really like this boy and i know he likes me too but ill be 15 tomorrow and he'll be 18 this tuesday. we really like eachother but my mom says that hes too old for me.
i think love has no specific age.
how do i convince her that i really like this boy and tell her nicely that she cant standin the way of my love life?
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Ok so not gonna lie if you guys are really love then you can wait 3 years until it's legal. Love has an age limit its called the law. I'm sure you probably love him but if he loves you he'll know that he can wait a few years.
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The truth is, every mom is terrified about their daughter dating an older guy. The trick here is to get your mom to see the good qualities about the person you want to date, to get her on your level. I suggest that you let this guy meet your mom. Invite him over for dinner or something. Let them get to know each other more. The more your mom gets to know him, the more likely that she'll feel comfortable with you dating him. She'll realize how great this person is, dispite the age difference. I hope I helped.
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this is always a hard situation. basically, the reason your mom thinks he's too old for you is because she thinks all he want is sex. so try and tell her that he's not that type of guy, he isn't crazy interested in it like most guys. tell her that you really like him, and mention you don't think it's right that adults can date with 5-10 years of age difference between them and teens can't. talk about his great qualities and how nice and polite he is, and tell her how important he is to you. technically she can't stop you from seeing him, however it would be unwise to say this to her because if she really doesn't support this then she will be keeping an eye on you and won't let you go anywhere unsupervised. good luck.
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Love might not know a specific age, but your mother does, and she can most certainly stand in the way of your love life. Moms can be very good at that actually.
Ask if you can invite him over for dinner so she can met with him. If you can prove that you are both going to be mature and respectful of parental rules, she might be willing to lossen those rules.
You are fifteen darling, you don't nicely tell your mother very much, you nicely ask, and prove yourself worthy of what you ask for.
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