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Best friend being selfish


Posted Friday February 3 2012, 11:45 pm

I'm a guy and had a best friend w/benefits with the understanding that if one of us met someone they liked we would tell the other so the benefits bit wouldn't continue and complicate anything. My best friend of 9 years didn't tell me he was seeing a girl for 7 months while still sleeping with me with was against what we agreed. Now I've lost all trust and respect for him and instead of apologising and making our friendship right he's went off with this girl and wants space from me as he's convinced himself I'm jealous which is far from the hurt and pissed off feelings am feeling. We are/were really close and I love him to bits but he is too focused on himself to see what he's doing to us.

Advice anyone please.

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How much weirdness can a guy handle???


Posted Friday February 3 2012, 10:40 pm

I'm REALLY weird when you get to know me, but that takes a few weeks...Before you kinow me too well I'm really shy. I like this guy and I don't know if he thinks I'm super weird and it's a turn off or something. I make really loud noises at lunch with my friends, throw food at each other occasionaly, and we LOVE making scenes in the hallway. But nothing too big. :) So how much weird is too weird for a guy? Thanks!!!

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Should I buy the IPad?


Posted Friday February 3 2012, 9:43 pm

Hello,

I need your guys' advice.

I am a college student always on the go. I am commuting to school four times a week and going to straight to work afterwards. I currently have a laptop (dell inspiron 1545 17 inch). And honestly, it is really heavy to carry around. Especially since I am taking four classes every day. I have to carry my textbooks and everything including my laptop.

I would also like to use it at work. I work with children and I don't want to be carrying around a 17in laptop around especially since we are constantly moving.

I am a little on the fence on buying it though. I know that it would make my life so much easier. I wouldn't have to carry my big laptop around t...

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Does he like me?


Posted Friday February 3 2012, 9:26 pm

okay well there is this guy i like that i donot really know too well but we talk sometimes and i really like him. I was sitting at lunch talking to one of my friends and a couple of my oother firends caught him staring at me while i was talking, then he smiled and walked away. And by that time i was pretty much freaking out. then in my school these 2 rooms are connected so its all one big room and he got sent ouot of his class and had to go sit in the chairs there and he smiled at me. Then another time I was practicing my instrument out in the hall way and he came out of his class and was like "nice playing sexy" and i was so happy but hes a well known flirter aroound school but it seemed differnt than ther other girls because whe...

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Don't know what to for my big sis birhtday...


Posted Friday February 3 2012, 8:10 pm

Okay my sister is 15 and i don't know what we(me and my Mom) can do for her birthday. My mom just had a baby so there not much we can do with her.Here some stuff about us. Four girl so nothing boy like. Most likely my mom will want to be back at 7:00 pm 8:00 pm at the late. We are not morning people. Her birthday on a monday.

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Okay I know that I asked this three time's. But no one can under stind me..


Posted Friday February 3 2012, 8:04 pm

So I will say this the best I can for the last time. Thank you for reading. After recording the song(or songs) from You Tube using sound recorder how do you put it on your mp3?I know how to record from You Tube after that I'm lost. Now I have some rules(sorry but it's my Mom laptop. If she has rule I have rules.)I can't download a program of any kind to the computer. And if I have to download the songs to the computer it need to be in a way that I can easy go back and get rid of them. So it was like it was never there(on the computer. Not my mp3 player.)Please I'm a little slow with the computer so if it herd(or easy)please break it down. Thank you.

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marriage after cheating


Posted Friday February 3 2012, 5:57 pm

I have been married for 6 years to whom I consider the best woman out there. I need to say that for the record. She is quick witted, smart, and has many abilities that could easily drop her into multiple career paths. Admittedly, she does feel indecisive. She hasn't followed up on any true career path and her indecisiveness has gotten the best of her in other ways. Our relationship throughout those 6 years have not been happy for both of us. While dating, I did catch her cheating and I realized that she had thought I was going to leave her so she was in essence seeing another guy. Things got better. But, I realized I have difficulty expressing myself with her. We have 4 kids now. The forth child was a difficult one in that I had no permanen...

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I want an abortion, but my husband wants to keep it.


Posted Friday February 3 2012, 1:42 pm

I took an at home pregnancy test 3 days ago, and it was positive. I instantly began crying, and have rarely stopped. I am 21, and my husband of 1.5 months is 23. I am in my senior year of college, and my husband just joined the army, and we just moved to our first duty station. I cannot stop crying, because I have always wanted to have a career before having kids. It was my dream as a child to be a pilot, and in September I decided I wanted to join the Army to achieve my dreams. But having a kid right now pretty much ruins my chances, and there is no other plausible way for me to become a pilot.

I started to talk to my husband about possibly having an abortion, and he said he would support me in whatever decision I came to, b...

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I like my sister's boyfriend's brother


Posted Friday February 3 2012, 10:27 am

Im a 14 year old girl in 8th grade I have liked this guy for a long time!And he has off and on been interested in me too! But this year my little sister and his little brother started "going out" they are 5th graders! They have been together forever! It seems like they will never break up! My crush has recently been flirting with me more and more and we want to go out soo bad but we can't I have no clue what todo! HELP ME

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How to make my wife get over my sex past?


Posted Friday February 3 2012, 3:14 am

I have been married for 25 years. Recently my wife asked me about my past girl friends. At first I did not want to tell her that I had been in bed with my first girl friend. However, I was too nervous to hide and my replies to her questions were with many flaws. Sometimes, the answer was contradictory and beyond common sense. At last, I needed to confess my sex past that I had with my girl friend. At that time she asked me about how we knew, the dates, intimate acts in the course of the dates and finally how we came to bed. Especially on the details of our acts in bed where she insisted that I should mention every details. After that, she felt that I was beyond her belief that she had so trusted me before to have done such thing. She began ...

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May I be pregnant from this?


Posted Friday February 3 2012, 1:03 am

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year or so, and lately the most we have done is something along the lines of this: He would jack off, or I would do it for him - and then once he was to his point of climax, he would finish himself off and wipe it off with a towel. Then he would wipe off his hands. Though this may sound gross I've licked it off his fingers once, and before he fingers me sometimes he licks his fingers aswell. And then he proceeds to finger me or I masturbate for him to watch. Of course, I put lotion on after I give him any sort of a hand job and use my hand, not finger tips in which I use to masturbation. I haven't had my period, I'm two days late. I get worried very badly at startling situations - can I be having ...

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What to do when you have awful nightmares... constantly?


Posted Friday February 3 2012, 12:17 am

A close family member recently passed away, and I've been.. Ok with it. I mean obviously at first it was awful. But, I'm pretty much back to the usual routine now. The problem is I've been having trouble sleeping. And when I do sleep, I have awful nightmares which makes me feel like I had no sleep. (whenever it rains or I have dreams in general in always very tired the next morning). Ive been staying up till like 230ish every night an waking up at 630. And then on Mondays and Fridays sometimes I catch up on sleep.

I wouldn't say I'm really depressed or anything. But I just don't know how to get rid of these nightmares. Very few are about recent incidents, but they are always very scary dreams. What do I do?

(a...

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I am crushed. He told me he loved me, and wanted to be with me, but now that he CAN be with me I don't see him anymore?


Posted Friday February 3 2012, 12:02 am

Ok plz don't judge me I was havin an affair with someone who has a child and a partner but his partner has now found out and he and her have split and I haven't heard from him was he using me??he told me he loved me said if he could be with me he would and now he can u hasn't even bothered with me :( I don't know what to do I feel hurt and angry at the same time I don't really have friends or anything he was someone who I thought actually cared someone I cud talk to etc now I have noone x

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I'm confused about my feelings! Three guys, and no idea how someone chooses in a situation like this! How do you choose a guy?


Posted Thursday February 2 2012, 11:41 pm

so im female and 16, not that it matters. There are these three guys and i dont know who i like. i feel like im horrrible person to be crushing on all of them at the same time. The first one is really sweet and shy and in a few of my classes. we dont talk much cuz we are both shy. He seems sweet and i had fun when we talked in class. But whenever i see him in the hall he'll wave and say hi, my face goes beat red. the second guy is really funny and makes me laugh a lot. i have fun talking to him and he seems cool. the third is really smart and we have lots of things in common...and we talk a lot lately. i dont know how to decided. i cant really ask you to choose but would any of you give me advice on how to figure it out. I dont even know if they are interested...thanks

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I shave, he doesn't


Posted Thursday February 2 2012, 11:16 pm

I shave my pubic area, not just for my boyfriend, but for myself aswell. But he doesn't. He wants me to go a bit further and go down on him, which I have, but the pubic hair is a bit irritating, and distracting. How do I tell him I want him to shave or at least trim?

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How do I ask my boyfriend to do things in bed?


Posted Thursday February 2 2012, 11:13 pm

So I'm wondering how to get my boyfriend to do a few things... I always hear that guys get upset or it messes with their masculinity or whatever when a woman asks or tells, rather, what to do in bed. How do I let him know what I want without being mean or feeling like an idiot?

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Super Powers?!?!? :D


Posted Thursday February 2 2012, 10:33 pm

So there's this thing I can do that has been trialed many many times and it worked EVERYTIME. I can tell someones personality just by looking at them. I don't have to know who they are or have to have met them or anything, I just need to see thier face. It's pretty cool. It also comes in handy when I need to see if a boy is right for me or not :) My friends cant do this but can anyone else? Thanks! :D

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Does he hate me or am I just weird???


Posted Thursday February 2 2012, 10:30 pm

There's a guy I like and I've caught him staring at me quite a few times. He has seen my crazy side like when I am around my close friends, is that bad? But I was stading behind him during this class thing we were doing and I got this hate vibe coming from him. I get that from every guy I like and I HATE it!! It makes me just want to give up. Why does this happen with every guy I like?

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Funny Story...


Posted Thursday February 2 2012, 10:14 pm

I was wondering what funny stories you guys have..Cause I have one that made me laugh so hard I skipped my afternoon ab exersice. So at school during lunch today, my friend was about to throw a bananna peel at someone sitting next to him(dont ask why....) and a piece of the peel flew off and went REALLY high up and landed flat on one of the most popular guys head!!! I was about to die I was laughing so hard...But his friends didn't look to exited. LOL I can't get to picture of the peel flying through the air...wow. My abs might hurt tomorrow from that. :D Well, what's your story???

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puberty


Posted Thursday February 2 2012, 8:33 pm

when do you know when you are about to have your period?

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