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So Ive decided this boys bipolar.
Posted Tuesday May 27 2008, 3:42 pm
Im a fourteen female and I have this iffy chronic fatigue thing, so Im homebound and dont get to see much of my friends let alone this AMAZING boy. This is going to be lengthy. Apologies! But friends dont matter much at the moment because my closest are moving away, including said boy, though not until summer ends. Ive liked him on and off for months, starting before new years. Last week we got into this conversation. I explained I was thinking about getting a hair cut, but nothing drastic,
and so he he was all 'kayjayyy[jay is for jerk] but ehh dont cut it youre cute enough already[smile]'
and i exclaimed that it wouldnt matter what i did with it because its not like hed see me anyway because of my absence
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he's bored
Posted Tuesday May 27 2008, 3:31 pm
okay so i've been dating my boyfriend a yeah and he talks about how one day he knows he is going to lose interest this hurts me and i try not to let it get to me but it does. it's like he knows the end is coming and he is preparing both of us for it. N ow I'm not naive i do know that eventually chances are it will. We don't really fight we don't have problems, we get along great and he tells me if he ends it it wont be because he stopped loving me it will be because he wont be able to be with someone he is "bored of". Now please don't tell me it seems like a jerk thing to tell your girlfriend. I'm just looking for things i could do to make things more interesting, not necessarily sex wise just in general to make him not lose inte...
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Cell Phone
Posted Tuesday May 27 2008, 2:26 pm
I was involved with someone for over 17 years up and down in and out.. He recently purchased a cell phone. He doesn't leave it out. He keeps it on him at all times, even while sleeping. The cell phone stays on vibrate. I have advised how I feel about it. Which is, I don't like it. He is attempting to re-establish trust and the cell is consistently on vibrate. Would you question the reason of why or would you just respect his privacy? Yes,there has been trust issues due to misuse of previous cell phones. The cell phone wasn't purchased until we had an arguement. It wasn't discussed nor was it financially planned.
In the past I have gone through his phone because I wanted to confirm my feelings of mistrust which was how I found...
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moving on
Posted Tuesday May 27 2008, 12:56 am
f. 17.
so me and my boyfriend of 2.5 years broke up.& ive been okay with everything because i knew he wouldnt let anyother girl in because he has a problem with opening up to people and once he does he is a complete ass. but im in love with him, we have history, well he started talking to this one girl who has a bf& he would ask me advice on what to do &i gave him honest advice, never bashing the other girl.&about 2 months later she dumped her boyfriend&now they are dating. usually its okay bc(i know this sounds conceited but the other girls he was interested in were never as good to him as i was) but her, she is so much better then me & i have never seen him so happy, i could never make him as happy a...
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it hurts and he doesint appreciate me but i love him
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 10:16 pm
okay ive been with this guy for three years and we have been through our ups and downs..hes cheated on me three times and i have not cheated on him back nor have i cheated on him at all he says hes cheated on me because i make him feel like i dont care..he says its because of numerous of things like.when i dont answer his phone calls. after he disrespects me and i feel attacked i end up hanging up on him He calls me out of my name and says really mean things about me..so i end up hanging up on him. and he says thats one of the reasons why he does what he does is because i dont answer his calls he says that im just another girl in his phone and says that i just tell you i love you to make it sound good..he tells me all of this when we argue....
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Sex, attraction and Relationships
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 9:32 pm
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for about 9 months. He's 19--I'm 18.
He always used to get upset when I didn't feel like having sex/messing around. I've always known that he's not in this just for the sex. I knew this for a fact--when we first started dating he thought I was a "good" girl...a very good girl.
Well it all came out eventually--he flat out asked me if I found him attractive. Apparently in his mind, if I say no, it means that I'm not physically attracted to him.
Truth is--I'm extremely attracted to him and I let him know that I think he looks good constantly but idk what to do about the sex thing because sometimes I'm just not in the mood. Even if I try expla...
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Birthday gift!?
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 8:56 pm
Hia again ,
I just wanted to know , what guys like to get as a bday gift from the gf's? because my bf's birthday is coming up and I have no idea what to get him..
please help ,
thank you so much ,
Betty
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... What should I do ...
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 8:52 pm
I caught up with an old high school friend about 3 weeks ago he came to town from 2 hours away to visit family and friends. I'm currently in a relationship but it's abusive and I'm trying to get out of it. However over a period of 2 and half weeks I think I may have fallen in love with my high school friend. We talk on the phone all night and we have so much in common and my heart beats faster everytime I hear him talk to me and I cry sometimes because I miss him and I feel really bad. The thing is he lives 2 hours away...He said he will move back down to my hometown but it's so hard to hear him say that when he might not be able to keep his promise. I think I am in love but I'm not sure. I can't seem to get my mind off him...
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Qb football player?
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 8:48 pm
Hey , I was wondering ,
I got a little situation , and don't know what to think of it ,
well see my bf and me started dating not too long ago , and he says he wont cheat on me he wouldn't do anything to hurt me , and all this other stuff , and hes becoming the QuaterBack for football.. and I don't know if I could trust him? Do you think I should trust a guy that says he won't cheat on me and won't do anything to hurt me if hes still the QuaterBack football player? because my friends don't trust him..
THANKS FOR YOUR HELP :)
Betty
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Playing games ?!
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 7:03 pm
Heres the deal his names sam and i'm head over heels for him! well me and him use to be close friends and we just started to drift apart. Then all of a sudden he starts wanting to sit with me in class and he passes notes to me and he steals my pencil and i try to grab it from him and he grabs my hand trying to hold it so we hold hands like a few times throughout a class. & i'm like oh dear does he like me cuz ii like him alot. so after the weekend monday he acts like nothing happened like we were back to the basics he had his friends and i had mine. i glared at him and he would catch me glareing at me and he'll wave hiiee. but thats it we dont sit beside eachother talk to eachother nothing. whats going on?
is he playing me?
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can't get over it!!!
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 6:58 pm
okay so there is this girl that my boyfriend and his friends used to be obsessed with. they always talked about her and thought she was the hottest thing alive. well now i have been dating my boyfriend for a verrry long time and he hasn't talked about her at all ever since we first started going out. but i can't help but feel upset whenever i think about how he used to talk and stuff. especially when we see her at school. i always think he is going to look at her and be intrigued or whatever. he always says that no one is prettier than me but i think he might think that she is. it doesn't seem like it should be a big deal.. but for some reason it is to me. i don't know how to get over these feelings. please help
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i feel as if this is my fault.
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 6:03 pm
ok so. my boyfriend and i have been kind of talking about the possibility of sex for a while? not actually saying "hey, lets have sex on THIS day" or whatever, but just like "yeah i want to," and yeah. well the past few times i went there things had gotten pretty heavy, but his friend was always in his room with us, so i always made him stop. but yesterday his friend wasnt there and we were making out on his bed. eventually i pulled apart from him for a second and pulled out a condom a brought. and i asked "how far are you willing to go with this?" and he kind of looked at me as if i was crazy or high or something.
I HAD NEVER BEEN SO EMBARRASSED IN MY LIFE. he was feeling me up and we were makin...
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i think i'm gay...
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 4:27 pm
15/m i don't know if i'm gay or not, but i'm sort of leaning towards being gay... i don't know what to do with myself.. i don't know if i should find someone and get things straight, or if i should wait for someone to show up... what should i do?
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thinking of my ex during intercourse
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 2:11 pm
when i have intercourse with my boyfriend all i do is think about my EX and i really do like my boyfriend a lot but i cant help but think of him and not my boyfriend i know that sounds bad but what should i do ? should i tell my boyfriend.. i dont know.. it makes sex so awkward and he asks me whats wrong and i say nothing but i dont know how i can stop thinking about my ex .. help? i feel so guilty any advice is more then good
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boyfriend of two years
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 1:42 pm
I'm 17 F and me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years this September. I love him, I really do. But idk how to really say it, but I just want to be a 17 year old and not a married old lady. Thats how I feel sometimes. My boyfriend has been there for me A LOT. I mean, he is great, we have our little fights, but I mean who don't? I NEVER cheated on him, and same for him to me. He's in college, and I'm a junior in hs, but hes home now, and I still have school left for a couple more weeks. So we're together a lot now. Hes not the hottest thing, but I don't care, I love him for how he is to me, and how wonderful he is. I love him, I do, but sometimes I wonder why did I get into a relationship so young like this. We started dating when I...
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this girl is playing extreme hard to get
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 12:59 pm
she is 14 and i am a guy and im 13. But iv gone through all puberty so im very mature for my age in how I act and look. we went to the same school but shes out already and comes back for her graduation tomarrow. i love her but i really dono if i like her enough to date her. i go to great skate every friday night and she goes whenever she isnt goin to a party or the mall soo she goes to great skate once every 3 weeks. At great skate everyones grinding flirting or making out. she likes these two guys, last time they were in court and didnt show she looked so hurt.both times before that they came and they were like on her or had her or her on them, in their arms :(. they were always hugging her and her friend and they kept pickin her up, they ...
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Uncontrollable feelings
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 1:51 am
I like a guy named Darrel and we used to like each other back in April of 2007. since then, it's been on and off and asdfghjkl and he's met girls, and i've had my times of depression and stuff. anyways. I did kindaaaa get over him for like, a month but the feelings were still there. we JUST started talking to each other a little more a few days ago. we talked for three nights in a row and tonight, he didn't call. I know i'm being paranoid but i can't help but feel reaaaally jealous if he's talking to another girl. He's allowed to, but I DONT LIKE IT. WHAT DO I DOOOO
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Shy and embarrassed :S
Posted Monday May 26 2008, 1:46 am
17/f. I really really like a guy at school who is in one of my classes. I've never talked to him before and I don't know him but I really like him :S
It's so bad because I feel really uncomfortable around him and I am really shy and everything. The worst thing is anytime the teacher asks me a question or I have to say something in class I get totally embarrassed and I'm pretty sure I go completely red and I am so embarrassed and I absolutely hate it, this has never happened to me before and I don't know what to do.
Help?
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Boyfriend Leaving Off To University.
Posted Sunday May 25 2008, 10:38 pm
Alright, so my boyfriend of 2 years and 4 months is finally leaving off to university in september. I am gonna be really devestated and i wanted to do something really nice for him as a good bye. I know it is like 3 months away but i want it to be big and memorable for him. The only idea i have is that i would like it to be a surprise.
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is he interested?
Posted Sunday May 25 2008, 5:05 pm
13/f
***soon to be freshman***
so there is this guy i like. his name is tyler. he flirts a lot. we dont realyl hang out much. but he flirts a lot and i think i do to. we have like 2 weeks of school and i dont know if he likes me or not. and i am really old fashioned and i dont think that girls should ask out guys... what should i do?
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