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he's bored
okay so i've been dating my boyfriend a yeah and he talks about how one day he knows he is going to lose interest this hurts me and i try not to let it get to me but it does. it's like he knows the end is coming and he is preparing both of us for it. N ow I'm not naive i do know that eventually chances are it will. We don't really fight we don't have problems, we get along great and he tells me if he ends it it wont be because he stopped loving me it will be because he wont be able to be with someone he is "bored of". Now please don't tell me it seems like a jerk thing to tell your girlfriend. I'm just looking for things i could do to make things more interesting, not necessarily sex wise just in general to make him not lose interest. He told me he doesn't like me as much now as he did when we first started dating, I cant go act like i did in the beginning because i haven't changed, hes just getting bored.
What can i do to avoid him ending it or at least to get these thoughts of boredom out of his head.
please help me
thanks x 100000000000
H.R.
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Well, most relationships lose there spice sooner or later. Make him realize what he would be missing if he broke up with you. Go out to different places then you guys usually go to. Maybe dress a little different or make your hair different. Flirt with him more. Maybe go do things he likes to do.
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Do something with him, if you don't already, and if you do try something new.
Go out if you dont. Maybe bowling, movie nights, play a board game, play video games with him, go outside and do something.. Just a few ideas.
Make bets on who can beat up who..if you play fight. Bet kisses and stuff. Or make bet kisses or something on who will win a game.
Write him love notes telling him how much you love him, if you do. But do NOT OVER Do it.. I dont think guys like it when you over do it.
Be creative.
I'm 15/f and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 1yr. and 8 months. So I know what its like. These are some of the tips that I could come up with,its what I do to keep my relationship a little interesting.
You dont have to change yourself for some one else though.
Hope I helped. Good Luck with you and your guy.
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