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Shy and embarrassed :S
17/f. I really really like a guy at school who is in one of my classes. I've never talked to him before and I don't know him but I really like him :S
It's so bad because I feel really uncomfortable around him and I am really shy and everything. The worst thing is anytime the teacher asks me a question or I have to say something in class I get totally embarrassed and I'm pretty sure I go completely red and I am so embarrassed and I absolutely hate it, this has never happened to me before and I don't know what to do.
Help?
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Talk to him
Whether it be in person or in a note, talk to him.
Get to know him better, become his friend. That way you know if he is even dating material. If you are too shy to talk to him by yourself have one of your friends introduce you to him.
If its meant to be everything will work out.
Good Luck
What to say:
I would reccomend taking the same approach you did with your friends at school. You can start off Hi and let your conversation grow from there. If a friend is there they can help kick off the conversation. Start off simple though, dont come on too strong too soon. Perhaps try complimenting him in some discreet whether it be his hair or his shoes he will appreciate it. Plus it can be a conversation starter. =]
The first conversation is always the hardest but once you get over that first greeting awkwardness evrything will only get easier.
Whatever you do don't be afraid to show who you really are. The most successful relationships are the ones who are the most honest.
I hope this helps.
Best Of Luck
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well its obvious to say you like the guy. but i think that you should try and talk to him any way you can. its normal to feel anxious when in class with the guy you are crushing but if you cant even talk then it may become a problem. if you are afraid of rejection of some sort, think of it this way. Guys are usually stupid about girls but they are most often not rude if you try to talk to them or are sweet and fun. but take it step by step. become friends first but dont overwhelm him or you may chase him away. play the game <3
any more ?'s feel free to ask
labella1400
ask for a pen or pencil
assignments, answers, notes
or even ask if he knows someone(doesnt even have to be a real person lol)
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First..Breath, just take a deep breath and breath when you are around him, but don't make it to noticable!
Second..Don't think of him as a crush, think of him as though he is one of your friends that you have known since the second grade. One thing I have always noticed is that it is easier to talk to a guy friend then a crush, so maybe you should do just that. Become his friend and get to know him.
With School..everyone is always nervous. its natural, don't worry about if you face turns red, orange, blue or purple! Just have fun, and it doesn't last forever. Just remember to breath.
Hope this helps,
AlyssaBT4T
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Don't worry so much. Everybody makes mistakes. People are just people, if you mess up they probabyl won't even notice or remember. Just be yourself. Don't get all nervous.
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