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I'm in 8'th grade and like a guy that my friend dumped
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 11:24 pm
I really like a guy. But my friend dumped him on the second to last day of school. I was so mad the way she did it. She just said, "We're over" I wanted to kill her. She also had a big group of girls with her when she did it too. I really like him. But i'm in 8'th grade, and have only ever had one bf before. Do u have any advice for me, so i can stand out, and get his attention. Cause i think he still might kinda like the girl that dumped him. I know of three other girls that like him 2. I need some advice, so i stand out more than them. Do u have any advice for my situation? Thanks
confused 13 year old
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Im not sure how i feel about him or what to do
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 7:42 pm
Ok so there was this guy that for the longest time i thought was really hot and we finally ended up talking the other day, and then he proceeded in asking me out on a date. The date went fine we held hands and stuff but didnt kiss. the only thing was i felt really confortable areound him and im not sure if that means im just confortable around him or if i just like him as a friend. Cause shouldnt i be nervous? (Im not sure cause ive never been on a one on one date haha) Anyways so now hes talking to me alot adn i feel like he likes me alot more then i like him, i want to tell him im not sure how i feel about him so that im not leading him on, but i want to continue to be friends with him and go out sometiimes...what should i do? and can any...
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I think i'm inlove
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 7:36 pm
(i'm 13/female)My ex-boyfriend Mike, i totally FELL INLOVE with him, right? He told me that he loves me but, he broke-up with me. He still won't tell me why he broke-up with me. I NEED to know how do get -my love- back! My soposed friend Lizzy is flirting with him and he flirts back but i only see him do it when i'm around when i just show up there not even near eachother but when they see me the immeditaly start talking. Do you think this is a way to getn me jelouse so i'll go back out with him? Or is it just a quincedence?
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house..money...
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 7:35 pm
I'd like to know if guys care whether or not a girl they are with has a small house or a big house and what not.
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Breaking up and staying friends...
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 6:42 pm
My boyfriend and I are thinking we may need to break up, but we want to stay friends...*if* we break up, I'm afraid it may not work out with friendship, but he says he'll be my friend no matter what...I want to be friends with him too, but I don't know how I'll be able to deal...any advice? Thanks!
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parents plus boys equals no bueno.
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 5:49 pm
so ive never had a boyfriend. and my parents are really into the whole christianity goody good thing. [not to offend anyone. its jsut that they look at everything in that perspective].
so this guy told me he likes me.
and i think i like him, too. but hes not exactly what my parents good classify as "they guy for me" hes a good kid, sweet kind etc. anyways. the problem is that i am not really personal with my parents. we dont talk about boys or periods or anything like that unless i absoulutely have to. so if i start going out with this guy, how can i tell my parents without them freaking out?
how should i start the convo? etc.
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confused relationship
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 5:48 pm
17/f
Guys are very confusing.So i've been hanging out with this guy who i really like,and well i guess you could say were "friends with benefits" but all we've done is kiss for about a month now.He's a shy guy in school,but outside of school he's huge talker.We'll it feels like we go out,and i want to be his girlfriend but i don't know how to ask him like what we are without actually saying it because i don't want to be just a girl he gets with i'm tired of being that.So anyway,how can i ask him without actually saying "what are we?"
thanks :)
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boyfriend.
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 4:50 pm
16/female
me and my boyfriend we have been going out for a week.and i feel really didfferent about him. like good different.well thing thts bugging me is sometimes he mentions ex girlfriends ,not personally. but like he says i just dont want things to happen becuz with my lasst gf blah blah. and i know he likes me he tells me all hte time he misses me and the im amazing. and he doesnt tlk to his exes. what to do.
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boyfriend and hickie
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 4:36 pm
okayy this is gunna sound gross but my boyfriend gave me a hickie like down down there right by where i pee :/ and it like swelled up and now is all puffy and im kinda scared now cuz it just looks bad and it scares me something could be wrong, is there anything wrong? will it go away it doesnt hurt or anything and i dont feel it
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She loved the gift i gave her! (what does this mean to you?)
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 3:04 pm
I gave a moon and star necklace to my best friend for her b-day and the chain broke. but she bought a knew chain with a love pendant the font is old english. the love pendent is on the same necklace chain with the moon star pendent. she showed it to me today and she said that the font looks like my tattoo (gemini) on the pendant. it sounds silly of me but does that mean anything? i like her but i know she doesnt like me in that way but i am just curious.
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NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 2:03 pm
im 15
ive made out with one boy
ive never had a relationship
all my friends have
its embarsing.
what can i do.
I thought by now SOMETHING would of happened for me to have a love life..
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We broke up .
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 12:53 pm
Well , exactly a week ago my boyfriend of a year and 3 months broke up with me. My heart was literally broken, he acted like he didnt even care. Well we know [ maybe] down the road we could be together again but we just was not happy with the [ relationship ] , the argueing and everything that was going on was to stressful [ so he says ]. Well its been hard for me because i see he's been hanging w/ girls alot and doing his thing. But i feel bad if i do anythng ya know. My question is , should i just not care sense its the summer time & just have fun w. everyone. And just flirt and havve a goodtime ? I just dont wanna like make out w/ people and then me and my boyfriend get backtogether and him have not done anything . I dont want him ...
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boyfriend in florida+ girl whose after him = trouble
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 12:12 pm
one day at the park my boyfriend met this girl named jen. jen thought that my boyfriend had everything a girl could wish or so she started chasing after him and tempting him. Like she took pictures of her naked body on his phone, she kissed him in spin the bottle, she wore her booty shorts when she saw him. and when any of these things happened he didnt seem to mind. and he never understands how i feel about her. so yesterday me and my boyfriend were talking and we were talking about how i cheated on him and then he jumped off a building to kill himself. and he told me that he wished his friend never told me about what he did so that way he could have left me with my lover and when he met jen he could have dated her. i was very mad at him. ...
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my ex
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 11:08 am
i dated this guy for three years on and off
i recently started talking to him after a long while of not talking
i meet up with him at the movies and we messed around there and after wards at his house me knowing he had a girlfriend
now he stopped calling me and dosent reply to my messages on myspace
i did make the mistake of sending him three messages telling him to call me cause i miss him and he replied that he didnt have a phone
so i let it go but then my lil sis visted his profile and read his comments and one of the comments was a message from some girl saying \"well call me in 20 min cause im in the shower\"
i have gained weight like 10 pounds since he last scene me before w...
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hopeless me.
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 11:05 am
15/f
There's this boy that I'm completely head over heels for. Have been since last school year! I met him a year & a half ago and I've been drooling over him for a year. Now, my crushes usually last like a month at the most( I've only had one other crush that went on for 4 years but now I'm just kind of like "I want to be his best friend forever' mode with him now) so I know that I really like this boy. But the problem is that he's a grade higher than me & so we don't have ANY classes together (MAYBE a math class next year but I think he's taking a different math class) so I don't really see him much. We talk sometimes but it's just a plain "Hey buddy" type of talks. And he has been going out with my s...
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I think we semi-broke up
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 6:10 am
My girlfriend and I have been arguing for a long time, mostly about how my dad doesn't know about her. My whole family except my dad knows about her because he's overseas.
She thinks I should just tell him about her, since we hope to get married. The thing is, in my culture, this is very dangerous territory. And I have to choose my moment and words carefully so I don't lose my family for her, or her for my family.
I'm an idealist. Give me a break.
It's always been an issue. The fact that she's so gung ho that we both have to lose something to be together, instead of my approach which is fight to win and keep all you care about.
Point is, we argued over my waiting being inaction, wh...
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I shouldnt look into it as much right?
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 3:09 am
“Make new friends, go on dates, don’t see/speak to them as often as you do and it will take time” How many times you heard that when you are trying to get over some one? Is there a best way to get over some one? Is there a faster and easy not to hurtful thing to do! To move on from the so called perfect one! My answer NO unless you met your soul mate, Like that will happen out of the freaking blue! I been in love with my friend for 7 years, I told her my feelings but she doesn’t feel the same. We see each other when we have time; she is close to me and caring and thoughtful. She doesn’t want a relationship neither does me with her, but for some way I just want to be with her even you I am sexual confused too. I guess we are both b...
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LDS missionaries
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 2:15 am
I know this guy who's coming home from his mission on tuesday. I plan to ask him on a date on wednesday. I knew him for several years before he left and he was always nice to me and flirted a little bit. But he was one of my older brother's best friends. He and my brother are still friends, but not close. I'm moving across the country in two weeks. Is it bad form to ask him out this soon, even if I won't be here much longer?
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Work/Facebook ??
Posted Monday June 9 2008, 12:27 am
Theres this guy I kind of like at work and the other day we were talking about our facebook pages, and he asked me how to spell my name so I thought that he was going to ask me to be a friend on his, but he didn't. I haven't known him that long now. Should I wait and see if he asks me later, ignore it or should I ask HIM to be a friend? And how would I play it off if he actually says no because I don't want it to be awkward at work. Thanks for any advice :)
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save my relationship?
Posted Sunday June 8 2008, 9:23 pm
boyfriend is 24 i am 19 we have been together since july. he moved further away in sept and we have managed to stay together. but jealousy and fighting occur greatly. i do admit i am really jealous and tend to get very worked up ( i get anxiety/bipolar) so once one thing happens i get very upset. but he does not help it he is just unbelivably mean and calls me stuff when we fight. everyone says just to tell him how i feel and when i do he like yells at me. its breaking my heart. he always says lets break up, please! and idk i like cant let him i cry everyday. we are going to aruba in 2 days and the last week whenever we fight hes said like we`ll be done after the trip but when we arent fighting he says hes not gunna but will if i keep this ...
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