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me and my boyfriend we have been going out for a week.and i feel really didfferent about him. like good different.well thing thts bugging me is sometimes he mentions ex girlfriends ,not personally. but like he says i just dont want things to happen becuz with my lasst gf blah blah. and i know he likes me he tells me all hte time he misses me and the im amazing. and he doesnt tlk to his exes. what to do.
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Get over it. You will deal with exes for the rest of your life and how happy you are with someone may very well depend on how well you deal with their exes. As long as he isn't comparing you to them or throwing them in your face it's not necessarily a bad thing. I know that my husband will always be afraid of me cheating even though the knows I don't and won't because he caught his ex wife cheating three times. People get into relationships with baggage and you have to deal with that. Perhaps you have something you don't like to do/talk about/think about because of something an ex did to you. Be glad you have him and he thinks you are amazing-- obviously his last gf didn't fall into the amazing category or he would still be with her.
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just tell him that it bothers you. be nice about it and the next time he says something about them just be like well I am not your ex and I don't plan on treating you like she did. i really like you and i just think i would be more comfortable if you didnt mention your exes as much.
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