I'm in 8'th grade and like a guy that my friend dumped
Question Posted Monday June 9 2008, 11:24 pm
I really like a guy. But my friend dumped him on the second to last day of school. I was so mad the way she did it. She just said, "We're over" I wanted to kill her. She also had a big group of girls with her when she did it too. I really like him. But i'm in 8'th grade, and have only ever had one bf before. Do u have any advice for me, so i can stand out, and get his attention. Cause i think he still might kinda like the girl that dumped him. I know of three other girls that like him 2. I need some advice, so i stand out more than them. Do u have any advice for my situation? Thanks
confused 13 year old
venom_97 answered Tuesday June 10 2008, 12:33 pm: General Rule of Thumb: Don't hook up with your friends' X boyfriends. It could put you in a situation to be used to get back at her for dumping him OR you could be considered as a rebound.
So, before expressing your liking of him, please talk to your friend about it, first to see if it's ok to bend the rule of thumb. Don't just up and do it because it won't be appreciated.
Never change who you are to stand out. Be yourself. If you want to be noticed after talking to your friend, then ask him to notice you and your interest in him and take it from there only if you aren't ruining a friendship between you and your friend. Never see yourself in a competition when it comes to guys - only challenge yourself and be competitive with success in your life for your future. [ venom_97's advice column | Ask venom_97 A Question ]
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