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my ex
i dated this guy for three years on and off
i recently started talking to him after a long while of not talking
i meet up with him at the movies and we messed around there and after wards at his house me knowing he had a girlfriend
now he stopped calling me and dosent reply to my messages on myspace
i did make the mistake of sending him three messages telling him to call me cause i miss him and he replied that he didnt have a phone
so i let it go but then my lil sis visted his profile and read his comments and one of the comments was a message from some girl saying \"well call me in 20 min cause im in the shower\"
i have gained weight like 10 pounds since he last scene me before we went to the movies and i did give it up to him easily when we were out
i dont know if he thinks im a slut or something now but i dont know what to do please help me
i really love him we were together for a long time and i miss talking to him cause there is not other guy like him and
help what should i doooo with him
should i just stop messaging him on myspace and just wait till he calls me
but then i dont want him to think he can have me whenever he wants and i dont want to tell him anything cause he will just laugh at me
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Stop calling and sending texts. Guys have a tendency to wonder if they can still get in a girl's panties after they have broken up, sadly you proved to him he could still get in yours. You know he had a girlfriend and messed around with him anyway-- how would you feel if someone you were dating had done that to you? It's time to move on. Stop worrying about him-- this guy cheated on his girlfriend with his ex-girlfriend--that's sleazy. You have given it up to him so yes, he probably marked you down in the "who I can call when I feel like it" column and went on to the next girl. You probably come across as desperate and that is unattractive and unappealing. Be the bigger person and walk away. Move on. Next time you see him act as if you don't and keep going and for God's sake if he wants to hook up--- DON'T.
High school loves are seldom Mr or Mrs Forever. The people who stay together from early teens on are the exceptions not the rule.
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Yes, I think you should stop calling and stop messaging him, let it go. Second, he has a girlfriend so I think it is time to move on, but I know thats difficult especially since you dated for a while and you really care about/love him. It may very well be that he thinks you are easy, not to be rude, and he could therefore be playing you and using you. I can't be the one to tell you that, because I don't know him personally. I think the best bet is to just move on and if it is meant to be then he will come back to you. If not you will find someone 10 times better and that treats you right.
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He has a girlfriend.
You shouldn't have fooled around with him.
You definately shouldn't be calling/messaging him.
Even if you don't know that you shouldn't be doing these things, he does know it.
This isn't about you, or your weight, or whether or not you are a slut, this is about a guy in a relationship!
Leave him alone. Forget about him. He has somebody and that somebody is not you.
You'll never know what he is thinking for certian, but you can realize that he is certainly not interested.
You can only make a fool of yourself by contining to try and contact him. Let it go.
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Hun, hate to break it but you've gotta move on.
If you want him real bad, then play hard to get times a million. Make him sweat.
Make him regret that he never returned your messages or phone calls, thats what I would do anyways.
And what would piss him off even more is if you started dating other people, then he'll start callin you again.
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