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save my relationship?
boyfriend is 24 i am 19 we have been together since july. he moved further away in sept and we have managed to stay together. but jealousy and fighting occur greatly. i do admit i am really jealous and tend to get very worked up ( i get anxiety/bipolar) so once one thing happens i get very upset. but he does not help it he is just unbelivably mean and calls me stuff when we fight. everyone says just to tell him how i feel and when i do he like yells at me. its breaking my heart. he always says lets break up, please! and idk i like cant let him i cry everyday. we are going to aruba in 2 days and the last week whenever we fight hes said like we`ll be done after the trip but when we arent fighting he says hes not gunna but will if i keep this up. idk what to do i cant even talk to him about anything without him flipping out. i feel like i do everything for him and get nothing in return. hes always judging me too, making me feel stupid or fat. and it sucks i just cant leave him or let him leave. help me please
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maybe you should tell him to give you a break and then stay with your family for just about 2 weeks then he will think why did she leave and then he will notice what he has done if you need ant more help e mail icprincessanw@msn.com thanx
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This relationship it doesn't sound healthy at all you shouldn't be crying everyday and have the threat of you two breaking up over your head.
Is this a relationship you really want to keep fighting for if it makes you so unhappy?
You should be able to talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel, he shouldn't be getting cross at you. Its not healthy.
Communication is the key within relationships and yours seems to be lacking it. As hard as it will be, maybe its time to let this relationship go.
See how this weekend goes. And then I think you should make the decision whether its a relationship worth keeping or not.
Goodluck!
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you need to just decide what you want to do. either stay with him unhappy and feeling emotionally a wreck, or leave him, deal with the pain and get better and be happy. good luck doll, and god bless.
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