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Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 11:44 pm
THis may be complicated.
I live 28 hours away from the person I love. Here is where it is complicated. I've met him once, he has been my pen-pal for almost 2 years now. I "met" him through my friend which is also his friend as well. (they've actually met) I went down this summer and I met him and things went more then great. I would move for him in a heartbeat & i am sure he would too but he cant (literally). Any advice as what to do? I cant stop thinking about him, i know my world would seriously flip upside down if I did not have him. Call me crazy, but i love him. I am not young & stupid. I am 19 and this is not just a toy thing because if this was just a lil dinky stage i was going through i wouldnt wast...
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Am I in over my head
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 11:21 pm
I've been on & off with this kyle 4 bout 2 years & i kno that i love him with all my heart but now im not so sure that he feels the same way before everyone could just tell but now its like everything I do is wrong. I can't seem to keep his attention anymore. I've always wanted to spend the rest of my life with him now i'm afraid that isn't goin to happen anymore. Wat should I do? Should I talk to him or just stay away from that subject?
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relationship problems
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 11:12 pm
hi me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 and a half months im 19 and so is he when we first starting dating it was great he called me every night he texted me all the time and we always had fun together now he rarely calls or texts if he does call its around midnight and if i call him he is always with his friends and either says i cant talk right now or he talks to them the whole time while i am on the phone listeneing and sometimes he calls me when he is with the friends and i just have to listen to him talk to them and now we are always fighting he never invites me to do anything with him and his friends anymore either he awways teels me wat hes doing as hes doing it doesnt even invite me and his friends are over every night and he ...
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romance
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 11:05 pm
me and my boyfriend have been dating 6 and a half months and i want to do something romantic for him for no reason . any ideas?
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what does it mean??
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 10:56 pm
17m sorry its kinda long
my friends know I like this girl, and that im really shy. One of my friends was over at my house, and I was talking to her online. I had to go help my grandma do something, so I left the room, and while I was gone, my friend got online and told her that I liked her, because he thought I was too shy and probably wouldnt say anything. while I was sort of mad because he told her, I was kinda releieved that she knew. he had sent the messages under my screen name, so the windows were still up when I got back, I saw that she hadnt said anything so I decided to message her to see what she thought. heres the coversation, while brief, extremely confusing to me.
me:hey
away message...
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My boyfriend of 3 years is lazy Help?
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 10:27 pm
So I have a boyfriend and we've been together for almost 4 years. And we have a kid together. He had a bad anger problem so he went to a counselor and got medicine. But he still doesn't have a job. He'll only keep one for 1 week and then quit. He refuses to change a dirty diaper and mind you our daughter is now 1 year old. I feel unappreciated but I don't know if I should break up with him or not? Some days he's really sweet, and then hes totally not. Any advice?
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i dont know what to do
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 10:17 pm
i have been dating this guy, Jay, for about 3 months now. im not really counting, but anyways...
before we started going out? i was having second thoughts about the whole thing because he did something with another girl. i dont know the whole story. his mom grabbed me aside one night and told me what he told her, but none of it made sense. i have a lot of questions about it but i dont want to ask him because its a very sensitive subject for him. (he was basically raped...and then for some reason the chick told everyone that he raped her. i know, its awful) well, at least by what his mom said, he was kinda raped. he only told me they had sex. i havent talked to girlie girl yet cuz i never talk to her. but. ok, im getting confu...
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Should i wait?
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 8:33 pm
So the boy i have a thing for has left for vacation for four weeks.
I know that i should just go out and have fun because it's summer, but i can't really get him out of my mind.
If i flat out asked him if he liked me, he would be really weirded out and answer honestly of course, but it would just be hard because he's gone.
I do know that he kind of has a thing for this sophmore in college also (we're seniors in highschool) and i know she wouldn't like him, but he still has a little crush on her.
I don't know..
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what do i do to make my boyfriend go CRAZY?!
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 7:31 pm
ok so me and my bf have been dating for almost 2 years. and i mean its fun, but not as fun as it used to be. yes, weve done it! but i want do something to make him more attracted to me. i mean i dont brag, but we are both really good looking, which is the hard part. hes so hott and other girls look at him, and other guys look at me and it gets really annoying. i want him to always think i am sexy. what do i do to make him go crazy for me?!?! ANYTHING would be greatttt!
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We like each other but he doesnt want a serious relationship
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 5:36 pm
Me and this guy have known each other for almost two years now, and we started out going out and broke up after a month, but just got alot closer. Anyway a year and a half later we are really close and we like each other. Anyway, there is something that is keeping him from me. SO there is this other guy that likes me and I had feelings for him but my feelings for this other guy that I love was keeping me from saying yes to him. So I asked him (the guy who I like) what he wanted, and he told me that he didnt want me to be with the other guy because he would miss me and he wouldn't know what he would do without being as close as we are now. I told him I needed to a reason to stay,And he said that he liked me but he wasn't ready to date me, be...
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Something special for him
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 5:13 pm
So me and my boyfriend have been together for around 9 months, and he is 22 and I am 20.. I want to do something really special for him for no reason..what should I do that won't be over the top, but will be just perfect for us. He loves to drink and party, and we both have outrageous senses of humor, we also attend Baylor together..help! Thankss
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Cheated
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 5:08 pm
Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and a few days ago his friend got on the phone calling me nasty names.
and i figured out my boyfriend got wasted and madeout with another girl.
i love him but i dont trust him.
i am misrable without him. should i give him another chance?
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long distance phone calls
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 3:42 pm
i have verizon and my boyfriend has t mobile
he lives in florida and i live in illinois
we talk everynight from aroud 9 and sometimes past two
yesterday we talked from around 2 to 430.
i know that is long distance. how much did that cost?
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Confused..
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 2:59 pm
Ok so heres the thing. Im 20/f Bisexual. im caught between 2 girls. the first girl ive been w/ for a year and a half now. were technically not together but we live together and basically are but without the title. the second girl is both my and my current girls ex and is now one of our best friends. we all hang out together all the time. neither of them know but i really have strong feelings for the second girl still(both of our ex). sometimes i feel like she has feelings for me too bc like for example we'll all go to the club and shell dance w/ me but she liek grabs my sides real hard and everything and then like if were walkin out and shes behind me shell grab my hand and everything. i kinda try to show her sometimes that i have feelings ...
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phone calls
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 2:37 pm
my boyfriend lives in florida while i live in illinois.
we talk on the phone at night cause from 9-2 its free.
i was wondering if we talk past 2 if it counts as long distance
he has tmobile and i have verizon
if i talk to him on my house phone will it be better or no?
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Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 11:45 am
well so there is this guy and i think i should slowly start to talk to him less. its rather complicated but i just dont kno if hes really that great a person and used to do bad stuff and i think he might just say what he thinks i want to hear. so ya i think it might be best if i closed off from him a little. but i really like the guy attention and having someone to talk to! i dont have a lot of friends here because i just moved here tho i do have some friends from when i used to live here but still. part of me wants to keep talking to him but the other part knows its best if i dont get really close to him. plus i dont want to lead him on because hes already kissed me but i told him that was a mistake an stuff and hes actually brought up us dating in the future and stuff. thanks! :)
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one year anniversary
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 4:41 am
So me and my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary is coming up. We're both 14. But in a very mature relationship. We mess around and stuff; but out of love. We want to get married and all that good stuff. This isn't a stupid immature young teenage relationship, trust me.
So, I wrote a 365 reasons why I love you, memories, etc thing. I was thinking of making it into a scroll but that wouldn't be very cute. So I thought of like a binder/scrapbook type thing. But I'm trying to think of anything else I could do with it. Any ideas?
And besides cooking, buying him clothes, etc. What else could I do for him? Make it age appropriate. He wants a handjob and we are going to mess around more. So I've got that covered. But any o...
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i'm scared this is gonna put me in hot water.
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 2:08 am
this is gonna get long, sorry.
my ex and i dated for a almost 17 months and we were amazing together. understood each other, never once fought in all that time, just completely compatible. but we broke up in november for complicated reasons. i started dating another guy in january/february who i had been sort of crushing on since august. things went way down hill and we started fighting alottt, mainly because of his jealous, obsessive ways. we're currently on a break/broken up but still kinda together. basically, we just dont have the title right now but we act the same and are hoping things will get fixed. my ex has not dated anyone else. we still love each other, and we know it. we were each others first loves, talked about...
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New boyfriend
Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 1:33 am
I started dating this guy about a month ago. We met at a bar and hit it off right away. We just became exclusive this past weekend, and I was really happy.
Unfortunately, a bundle of shitty relationships has got me paranoid about everything in a relationship. I've dated many guys, but always hesitated when it came to having an actual boyfriend.
If he doesn't call, I assume that something is wrong. Not even about him dating other girls or whatever-- but more so, the fact that he could change his mind at any moment, and I'll be back to nothing. It's clear that we want each other, when we're with each other. But, any time in between I spend wondering why he's not calling, and if it's because I did something wrong ...
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Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 12:45 am
well so i met this guy and i just moved to a new place and im going to a new high school and everything. im gonna be a sophmore. i used to live here so i still have some friends from when i was younger. anyway my friend introduced me to this guy and a few of us went to the movies and he kissed me. now since we barely knew each other we are getting to kno each other and stuff. the problem is i dont think i actually like HIM i just like the guy attention. a few months ago my bf and i broke up and now ive moved on but now that im single i really want guy attention. the guy acts like he likes me and we do flirt but i dont think i actually like him. i really dont think i like him i think i just like the attention. he says hes been thinking about...
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