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relationship problems
hi me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 and a half months im 19 and so is he when we first starting dating it was great he called me every night he texted me all the time and we always had fun together now he rarely calls or texts if he does call its around midnight and if i call him he is always with his friends and either says i cant talk right now or he talks to them the whole time while i am on the phone listeneing and sometimes he calls me when he is with the friends and i just have to listen to him talk to them and now we are always fighting he never invites me to do anything with him and his friends anymore either he awways teels me wat hes doing as hes doing it doesnt even invite me and his friends are over every night and he says he didnt invite them that they have a key and he doesnt even wanna b there with them we never really go out anymore we just sit at home and watch tv he says he is always romantic but i cant even remember the last time he was, we only see each other like 1 a week, we both really love each other wat should i do to help our relationship
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You know I would really like to say something positive about this situation but the only thing I can say is that it is not too late to get out of it. Six and a half months is almost too long to be in an uncommitted relationship and clearly that is what it is. Yu are committed but he is not. I have been here done this so many times. I used to try everything like ultimatums and asking them what I did wrong. Guys like to make excuses and if sex is involved they will hold on to you just for the sake of having someone to get it from. This is hard to hear but don't let anyone tell you that a call in the middle of the night is not a booty call because it is. When a gentleman really wants to pursue you they make time and they don't let friends get in the way. If you are not having sex then it is clear that he wants to because he is still allowing you to call him and he is still communicating with you but realize that those conversations are not quality ones.You might as well be talikng to the television. But don't take my word for it... try this. Next time he calls at midnight just ask him straight out if he wants to have sex and see what he says. If he says yes put him on front street about it and if he says no then ask him why he is calling you at booty call hours. Is there someone else so he has to sneak and call? Whatever the case something is wrong and you need to be happy just as much as anybody. You're so young that you can still have fun and there are plenty of guys out there...don't sell yourself short but give him something to think about.Life is too short--Have fun!
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Wow....maybe tell him how you feel! Tell him that you don't think that he is doing anything romantic for you and that you think that he shouldn't call you when he is with his friends. Tell him to choose between his friends and you, and if he says his friends, then tell him that you can find someone else way better and break up with him. Just tell him how you feel about the situation, and if he doesn't like it, then tell him to shove it up his butt.
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