Ok so heres the thing. Im 20/f Bisexual. im caught between 2 girls. the first girl ive been w/ for a year and a half now. were technically not together but we live together and basically are but without the title. the second girl is both my and my current girls ex and is now one of our best friends. we all hang out together all the time. neither of them know but i really have strong feelings for the second girl still(both of our ex). sometimes i feel like she has feelings for me too bc like for example we'll all go to the club and shell dance w/ me but she liek grabs my sides real hard and everything and then like if were walkin out and shes behind me shell grab my hand and everything. i kinda try to show her sometimes that i have feelings for her in like little ways like grabbing her hand and squeezing it but i dont know if she realizes. and its not something i can just tell her w/ out my current girl finding out bc im pretty sure the other girl will tell her. i would love to be with this girl but i dont know how she feels about and shes not trustworthy at all. shes cheats on like everyone shes with. even if she did want to be w/ me im not sure if id be willing to give up the girl i have right now. i dunno im just really confused and i dont know what to do. i know this is a long confusing story but i would really appreciate any advice..
thanks!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cloudy_conscience answered Wednesday July 2 2008, 5:19 pm: Well you've been with your current girl for a year and a half now and it could just be that because you have been together for a while you are getting curious about dating other people. I would say that you shouldn't let her go simply because you are still attracted to your ex, I mean she is your ex for a reason. You broke-up with her for something and you even said she wasn't trustworthy, so why ruin something good for something you aren't really sure about. I think that you should stay with your current, unless you completely have no feelings for her anymore and want something new with your ex.
TMZheartsJDMS022108 answered Wednesday July 2 2008, 4:50 pm: My advice is that you shouldnt leave your current girlfriend because she treats you good so im assuming. This other girl could be a girl that you like and hook up with but she doesnt seems like girlfriend material. Im not bi and i guess i dont understand but i think that its like the same with males too. If shes going to cheat then dont do it because you are just going to end up hurt, while hurting your current girlfriend. Good luck hope this helps [ TMZheartsJDMS022108's advice column | Ask TMZheartsJDMS022108 A Question ]
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